Some may remember me. I am 37 my husband is 35 we have been trying since August of 2011. We married in May 2011. I had health insurance until September and now am in limbo on what we are going to do with that. My new job has no benefits and my husband's job's benefits are bad. I have never been pregnant and my husband has no kids so this will be a #1 for both of us. Right now we are just trying but we both know that something has to change in 2014. No one else knows how long we have been trying or how disappointed we are at not being parents.