my husband and i's relationship is also up and down. im not sure how to cope with it also. we love each other very much, but there's tons of work that needs to be done. and we're both trying. idk how many times he's thrown the divorce card at me or separation
Mine left, and says he just really needs to feel like he doesn't have me at all. But if I send him a text he kisses this girl at his work to make him forget about me..
Um, not to sound rude or anything but it sounds like he doesn't want to be with you but he doesn't want to be the one to call it off completely. I can understand having major issues that need to be dealt with and I'm always a fan of second chances (DH and I almost got divorced), but if he does that every time you send him a text, he needs to go. Permanently, IMO.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but he doesn't sound mature at all. It is best to end things before they get too out of hand and your relationship is ruined forever. Besides, you don't deserve to be treated like this.
Mine left, and says he just really needs to feel like he doesn't have me at all. But if I send him a text he kisses this girl at his work to make him forget about me..
Well I'm single but not married. My boyfriend took off when I told him that abortion was not an option for me...but yea, your husband sounds really immature..you could do better.
File for divorce, then file for child support. He sounds like a loser, I do not believe the relationship with him is worth saving.... At least from what you've posted.
If he's kissing other women, he's cheating. Drop this dead weight. You deserve better and your babe will do better not seeing their father treat their mother like this.
I agree. You deserve so much better. For goodness sake , you just had a baby. Going through 9 months of pregnancy and then going through this would be hard on any women. He obviously doesn't have any respect for you. Do not put up with his crap. I know it's hard but you have to do what is best for you and your baby. If he is off kissing other women he obviously doesn't care.
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