Late Term and Child Loss

Cant think, cant sleep

It's been two years since I had my 2 miscarriages and 1 very painful ectopic. I still hurt the same way as I did the moment I realized that I wouldnt be carrying to term. I am so afraid to even try now. I cant help but be jealous of people who didnt want kids and it just happened for them so easy. It has gotten so bad that i feel awkward around children. Is there any easy way to cope? Does anyone know of a Pregnancy loss group in Houston? Sometimes Im afraid to post here because ive seen how the women here attack others sometimes. All I want is a little hope. I know were not miracle workers. How can I make this easier on myself?

Re: Cant think, cant sleep

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    I am very sorry for your losses.  I disagree with the attacking on this board.  I've been on this board for almost 2 years and have never seen anyone attacked.  You may want to try posting on the miscarriage board.  The women on this board have all had later term losses.  The women on the miscarriage board will be able to better relate to your situation.  You may want to call your local hospital with regard to loss groups.  They should be able to point you in the right direction.  Again, so sorry for your loss.


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  • I would try your local Mental health counsel. I know here in Canada they other a lot of different services for grief and coping.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  Here is a link I found for a pregnancy loss group that might be near you.
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    I've been on this board for more than a year and have never felt like we have attacked anyone. Yes, we do a lot of redirecting and tell people they should be on the miscarriage board instead of this particular board, but that never leads to any sort of cattiness or hurt feelings. I have no clue where you got that impression from.

    Regardless, I'm sorry for your losses. As others suggested, you may want to contact your local hospital or doctor to see about resources to help.


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  • thank you ladies! well i said what i did about the attacking because its happened to me twice before with something petty and the rude remarks were simply not necessary. Thank you all though I wasnt aware i was on the wrong board for this honestly I wasnt sure where to post this site is fairly new to me. THANK YOU ALL!
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