It's late, I'm bored....ask me anything....(nft)

mrsterry

 

luluroo

did you ever have an ae?

Purrrfect433

Is Zachary's biological mom in his life still? How does custody/visitation work out? How do you feel about her? How does she feel about you? Do you ever resent him?

mrsterry

I used to be mrsterrytobe, if that counts....

jaredswife

How long is your DH gone for?

amanda&rob

What exactly is yh doing in Afghanistan?

Does Zachary call you mom or Mrs. Terry?  

Have you ever had a one night stand?

mrsterry

Purrrfect433:

Is Zachary's biological mom in his life still? How does custody/visitation work out? How do you feel about her? How does she feel about you? Do you ever resent him?

She is...he's with her right now.
We have custody and she has visitation.  Since we're back in VA, she's seeing him more (but it's really only because she sees her other son because she pays child support for him).
I don't really know how I feel about her.  She's not the brightest bulb in the pack and I just don't understand half the shit she does or has done.
I don't know how she feels about me...she should feel happy that I'm taking such great care of MY son.
Resent who?  Zachary?  NEVER!  I love him to pieces!  He gets on my nerves quite often, but that's what 11yo boys...it's only natural.

mrsterry

jaredswife:

How long is your DH gone for?

He's supposed to be coming home for 20 days on the 19th, but he just informed that they want him to stay to the 30th...so who knows now..

mrsterry

amanda&rob:

What exactly is yh doing in Afghanistan?

Does Zachary call you mom or Mrs. Terry?  

Have you ever had a one night stand?

He's setting up computer networks for the new bases and upgrading the ones on the exisiting bases.

Mom

Oh yes! 

championmama

Is your oldest son not your biological child?  If not, why?  Something you said in a post a while back made me wonder if he was your DH's from a previous relationship/marriage?

championmama

you don't have to respond to my question.

Hi - I'm championmama and I don't read other responses until after I respond. Why?  I have no idea.

mrsterry

championmama:

Is your oldest son not your biological child?  If not, why?  Something you said in a post a while back made me wonder if he was your DH's from a previous relationship/marriage?

No, Zachary is not my biological child.  He is from MH's 1st marriage.  (I'm sure it's my occassional reference to Z's egg donor that triggered the question.)

mrsterry

championmama:

you don't have to respond to my question.

Hi - I'm championmama and I don't read other responses until after I respond. Why?  I have no idea.

It's ok....

mrscolleton2b

mrsterry:

championmama:

Is your oldest son not your biological child?  If not, why?  Something you said in a post a while back made me wonder if he was your DH's from a previous relationship/marriage?

No, Zachary is not my biological child.  He is from MH's 1st marriage.  (I'm sure it's my occassional reference to Z's egg donor that triggered the question.)

 

LOL we have an egg donor too!

belle204

Will we team up to embarass A & A at their wedding? Or will we be good mamas?

jaredswife

championmama:

you don't have to respond to my question.

Hi - I'm championmama and I don't read other responses until after I respond. Why?  I have no idea.

OMG I do the exact same thing.  Then I feel so stupid after I read the rest of the thread.

mrsterry

belle204:

Will we team up to embarass A & A at their wedding? Or will we be good mamas?

This is my plan...

Be good at the wedding but have them shaking in their boots from all the embarassing things we do and say during the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner!

ETA: Like copy this post to show how premeditated it was and that we're not just CRAZY!

MrsCorbin

This post is very entertaining.

Belle & Mrs.T- Embarrass them!  Then post pics on the "Grown Children" board that we will force the Nest to create for us.

belle204

mrsterry:

belle204:

Will we team up to embarass A & A at their wedding? Or will we be good mamas?

This is my plan...

Be good at the wedding but have them shaking in their boots from all the embarassing things we do and say during the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner!

Awesome. I can go with that.

Edit: Corbin-- A Grown Children board... loves it.

Love the new pic.

mrsterry

MrsCorbin:

Then post pics on the "Grown Children" board that we will force the Nest to create for us.

I'm halfway to the point of needing that board already!!!!!! 

mrsterry

jaredswife:

championmama:

you don't have to respond to my question.

Hi - I'm championmama and I don't read other responses until after I respond. Why?  I have no idea.

OMG I do the exact same thing.  Then I feel so stupid after I read the rest of the thread.

No need to feel stupid.... at least now we have the "edit" feature to fix it all!  lol

championmama

well, as someone who didn't realize he wasn't biologically yours, I can say you have never said anything to make me question your true, motherly love you have for him.  That is wonderful.  My sister's huband is the same way toward THEIR twin sons (although they come from she refers to as the sperm donor).

jaredswife

mrsterry:

jaredswife:

championmama:

you don't have to respond to my question.

Hi - I'm championmama and I don't read other responses until after I respond. Why?  I have no idea.

OMG I do the exact same thing.  Then I feel so stupid after I read the rest of the thread.

No need to feel stupid.... at least now we have the "edit" feature to fix it all!  lol

stupid is probably an exageration, absent-minded is more like it, haha. 

Is your DH in the military?  What branch?

mrscolleton2b

How long have you and DH been together?

mrsterry

championmama:

well, as someone who didn't realize he wasn't biologically yours, I can say you have never said anything to make me question your true, motherly love you have for him.  That is wonderful. 

Thank you.  I love to hear that (and I do hear it rather often).  Sometimes I even find it hard to remember...then I do the math...lmao

mrsterry

mrscolleton2b:

How long have you and DH been together?

We've been together for 7.5 years (June 18, 2001) and married for 4.5 (June 19, 2004).

mrsterry

jaredswife:

Is your DH in the military?  What branch?

No, he's working as a civilian contractor.  He was in the Navy years ago, though....way before we ever met.