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DH and the traumatic SA

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DH decided to do a drop off for his SA.  He gets to the hospital this morning and for some reason doesn't go in the main entrance.  No one through that door can tell him where the lab is.  He finally gets to the lab, where the lady tells him someone will be with him in a few minutes.  He tries to discreetly explain the situation, but she doesn't do discreet.  She loudly announces to someone in the back that a guy is there for a SA drop off.  Someone else takes him to the back, where they once again announce loudly what he is there for.  

I tried being sympathetic wife when he called me, but all I could do was laugh.  He said he is so traumatized that he doesn't know if he can ever do that again.  He's rewarding himself for a job well done by cashing in his spa gift certificate for a massage.  
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Re: DH and the traumatic SA

  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    That's the breaks. It's like.. I don't want to announce my business when I'm there for an IUI or IVF related crap, but they do it anyway. My H just doesn't care.. He's like "Yea, I'm here to wank in a cup, SO?" 

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I'm Laughing too!! =))
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  • chrissynenachrissynena member
    Amores0121 said:

    I would have laughed too. Men are such babies. We are subjected to mountains of testing, people looking at and inserting things into our vaginas/uteruses and they whine about masturbating into a cup.

    OMG this lol. We have our IUI coming up this weekend, and I've already started hearing ugh I have to do that?? I said lets think back to IVF, and I had a needle in my vagina and the meds didn't kick in until AFTER I was done. Lol this post made me giggle.


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    That happened to my SO and his best friend's wife worked there and heard it all. She spoke up and said "I'll handle the gentlemen that is here with his stud analysis, haha! When he came home and told me that I almost peed my pants :-P
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