capture your grief day 19

lrichmond86

Day 19: Support: Share about what has been the best support for you since the loss of your baby. Maybe it is a special friend or family member? A pet? An organization? What have they done for you? Where would you be without them?

lrichmond86

You ladies here on the bump have truly burn my greatest support. The circumstances in which we came together are horrific, but I'm so thankful for such a wonderful community.

Noethola

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I agree the Bump has been a fantastic place of support. The people here on the Loss board are so incredible. 

I would also have to go with DH and our families. Our families are very close, and this has brought us closer. I am thankful that they are always willing to show love and support, even when some of my requests may seem ridiculous. They remember her with us, and I am so very thankful for that.

mingaling2

I think DH has been my greatest support.  Even though we're both in pain, this seems to make us even stronger by a whole new level. 

The Bump has also been invaluable to know that we're not alone, and we're thankful for you all.

TwinkleTor

Day 19. Support:

I have had a ton of support through out my loss. My fiancé has been a great support but I try not to fall on him too much because it was his lose too. I have my parents that have supported me, but again, they were so excited to become grandparents that they were devastated by the loss too. The Bump has been a GREAT help! When ever I need to vent and get advice you ladies are all very reliable. I'm sorry that loss has brought us together, but you ladies have been come friends!

The one being that has been my #1 supporter has been my Jonah Moostache. My pitbull, my son, my best friend! He's gotten me through severe depression before and he is helping me through our loss. When I cry he lays his head on my shoulder or lap and nudges my hand to pet him. He acts silly to make me laugh when I'm feeling sad. And he keeps me busy with his walks, his feedings, his play! When I went back to work it was hard for me to leave him since he was my rock for 3 weeks after our loss, since u didn't leave home without him. We have been together for nearly 5 years and I adore this boy! He is truly my lifeline and my superhero!

schulme2

This has undoubtedly been the worst time in my life but I am thankful for the support of my family. My husband has been there to laugh with me, cry with me and share memories. The grief share emails have also been very helpful. I have found a tremendous amount of support from you ladies. Just knowing I'm not alone and can go to people who know what I'm going through has been so helpful!

Dixon813

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Hands down, my husband has been the best support for me. He is always there to listen, hold me, let me cry. He never judges, he never tells me to stop. He accepts me for who I am and who I am in that moment.

I cannot imagine life without him - and I don't want to. When I feel weak, he's there to hold me up, when I'm tired, he's there to rock me to sleep, and when I'm happy, he's there smiling along.

PerkyErky

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My husband has been my greatest support. He helps me through it all. He cheers me on when I need cheering, he holds me and let's me cry my heart out. He talks about our daughter and remembers her with me. He is an amazing man and an amazing father. I am so lucky he is my partner in crime and the father of my children.