Late Term and Child Loss

capture your grief day 14

Day 14. Family: What does you family look like now? Is it just yourself carrying your child’s heart in yours? Do you have other children? A partner? A pet? You may not have what society perceives as a family but we all know that just because you cannot see any children, that does not mean that they are not a part of your family.
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    You have all seen this pic already, but this is my family. This is the most recent picture of DH and I, and the little boy growing inside. I am really looking forward to a family photo, and including Elsie's bear in it to represent her. 

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    "Elsie Irene was born sleeping at 35w 6d on December 8, 2012. Mommy and Daddy miss you sweet girl."


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  • These are the last photos we took as a family of four. My DH, my 3 y.o. daughter Mia, and me with Coraline in my tummy. They make me both sad and happy - I just remember being so happy that day.

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    EDD 1/8/10 - our sweet sunshine DD born 12/30/09
    EDD 2/15/14 - Stillbirth at 21 wks 10/02/13
    EDD 8/12/15 - MMC 1/12/15
    EDD 12/24/15

      
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  • This is a tough one today because I've been struggling with my family dynamics lately. I'm so thankful for dd and love dh tremendously, but we're going through a hard transition period right now and I don't care for him all that often. Side track. Sorry. It's just weighing heavily on me.

    This is a picture we took at the farm down the road last weekend when we bought our pumpkins. I considered taking a picture with the three of us as well as the cat and dog and baby Gary's picture. I decided against it because even though I always carry him in my heart and he is certainly a part of our family, this is the family I have here with me now, my most important people. It kills me to even say that, but it's true and I'm a realist.
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  • This is us now... Just without my sweet Mary. I know these pictures should make me happy but I have such a heart stopping reaction when I see them and remember that we have one little baby instead of two. When I see him, I think about how similar his twin sister would look right now and it continues to break my heart.
  • Day 14. Family:

    My family now: Me, my fiancé, Domenik (in utero), and our "son" Jonah Moostache. This is our "Save The Date" invitations for our wedding coming in July 2014. In a conversation with my mother she said "do you still want to use the "save the dates" as they are or do you want to take new pictures?" I responded "of course I want to use them as they are, Domenik is still apart of this family, and he is still so important to us even though he is not here physically. I wanted him to be apart of the wedding, and this will he how now considering the circumstances."

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  • My family from this summer.  This pic is of my husband and I, our 2 sunshine kids, and our rainbow...  
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