Day 14. Family: What does you family look like now? Is it just yourself carrying your child’s heart in yours? Do you have other children? A partner? A pet? You may not have what society perceives as a family but we all know that just because you cannot see any children, that does not mean that they are not a part of your family.
Re: capture your grief day 14
This is a picture we took at the farm down the road last weekend when we bought our pumpkins. I considered taking a picture with the three of us as well as the cat and dog and baby Gary's picture. I decided against it because even though I always carry him in my heart and he is certainly a part of our family, this is the family I have here with me now, my most important people. It kills me to even say that, but it's true and I'm a realist.
My family now: Me, my fiancé, Domenik (in utero), and our "son" Jonah Moostache. This is our "Save The Date" invitations for our wedding coming in July 2014. In a conversation with my mother she said "do you still want to use the "save the dates" as they are or do you want to take new pictures?" I responded "of course I want to use them as they are, Domenik is still apart of this family, and he is still so important to us even though he is not here physically. I wanted him to be apart of the wedding, and this will he how now considering the circumstances."