WTH!!!

lafsalot

I've been up since 3:30, I replied to a post that DH was complaining because I go to bed too early... And several things on the bump. Then tried to go back to sleep, couldn't sleep, so I got up at 5:30, made a coffee cake for breakfast. Made DH an egg sandwich, his lunch, fruit, and put cake in with it... Cleaned out the fridge, clogged up the garbage disposal and searched for drain cleaner.... Meanwhile DH gets up late and was a horrible jerk!!! Yelled at me for supposedly airing dirty laundry on FB!!! Seriously!!! I said I was tired!! Growing a baby so I needed to sleep, but even before we were married if I was tired/ bored, I would go to bed early or spend a Saturday once a quarter napping!! How is that airing dirty laundry!! Now I am standing in my kitchen balling my eyes out!!! I'm tired!! I'm doing everything I can and he's a jerk!!! Sorry needed to vent... Now I'm going to try to get a shower, so much for coffee cake... I'm not hungry... Sad!!! Doesn't he know you can't yell at a pregnant lady like that for something stupid!!!

allipoop

WTH!?! That was really mean of him. I'm sorry your Friday started like that. I hope you can enjoy your coffee cake soon. >:D<

artistlife

DH and I have been arguing more lately, too. I think it is a combination of me being over sensitive and him being freaked out, in every way, that we are having another baby very soon and a girl no less. Sorry he was a jerk this morning. (((Hugs)))

fluttergirlmoonchild79

Sorry he was a jerk this morning.  Mine's been pretty jerky over the last few days too between stress at work and the fact that baby girl will be here soon isn't a good combination for him.  I hope for both of our sakes they snap out of it soon.

lafsalot

Cupcake-if I could send it to you I would. I have completely lost the craving... He has text apologized, tried calling but my phone didn't ring but the ugly cry won't go away.... Thank you everyone for the support!

It is definately a recipe for disaster, hormones, no sleep, and yelling husband... Makes for a very upset gal. Well better start working now. Have a great day ladies!

hollowway

I think N has yelled at me twice since we've been together and both times ended in me hiding and ugly crying (I hate crying in front of people)... he now talks sternly instead if I frustrate him.

I'm glad your DH apologized, but you should pack him just a plain sandwich for lunch tomorrow and a bottle of water ;-) We're all 8-9 months pregnant and sleep is precious. I bet he wouldn't be so quick to yell if he could know your pain for a day. Men.

lafsalot

Yeah, I think his nerves are starting to get him, he said something a dinner last night about not thinking this whole dad thing through and when apologized he said he felt like a lousy husband and that he wasn't going to be a good dad because he couldn't just ge supportive.... He's normally a great guy, a little selfish but I knew that going in, he tries so hard, he's never yelled at me before, been stern and that was enough to hurt my feelings.

Maimes10

Aw sweetie, that sucks!  While the apology was necessary it doesn't resolve the way you feel.  I try to keep in mind that I am SO connected to my LO already because I'm carrying him...makes it more  real for us I think and allows us to settle in to the idea of motherhood, the Dad's don't get this...nothing chnages for them until BOOM, baby is here!  I expect MH to start getting a little anxious over the next few weeks.  If' he's a selfish jerk though, I have NO problem losing my shit on him and putting him in his place.  It takes a lot to put me into tears, but very little to make me stabby! 

Momtothreelove

Amen over here! I'm resentful of dh as I'm still trying to function with two kids, working full time and no sleep! He's been furloughed to home and while I understand he's struggling, my patience is wearing thin! He just had torn labrum surgery 2.5 weeks ago, so he is uncomfortable...well I'm growing a human, so I'm uncomfortable too!

Deep breathes...we are almost through this! I keep telling myself men are just jealous bc they can't make mini humans...maybe it makes me feel better?!

lafsalot

Thank you ladies! He felt really awful, said that he mostly was just embarrassed of his own behavior because he didn't feel like he was being supportive enough and it hurt him. Mom of 3 - I hope your world settles down!! I don't know if I could handle DH at home all the time right now.