Feeling lonely

LuluMT

I feel like my partner is not being very supportive. He went to my first appointment with me but we have hardly even talked about the pregnancy. We can't even agree on when to announce the pregnancy. He seems mad that he can't tell everyone and has told a lot of people I wish he wouldn't. I am getting really lonely and depressed. We are getting married later this month and now I am questioning that as well. Is anyone else having these problems?

eemiers

I have had some loneliness bouts. My husband is very supportive. But I think it is hard going through all the physical changes while no one knows! All of the sudden I feel the need to hide from my friends since I can't share nor would they understand everything. As for your soon to be hubby, talking with him about these feelings will help. However, you have to know he doesn't understand what you are going through and be patient with him.

Reasons2Smile

Hormones. I'm all over the place. Most days I can't stand him. Some days I feel guilty about it, and some days I just don't care. I feel like everything he does is dumb. I know it's just me being irrational and hormonal, so I'm not trying to put much weight behind my feelings right now, but it still makes me question everything. hang in there.

AR1313

My husband also went to only one appointment with me (well i only had 2) but he only went to the first ultrasound and he's planning on going with when it's time to find out the gender. But I said that I will secretly go to that appointment just because he's not going to the rest. I don;t feel lonely or anything like that and he does listen to all my pregnancy stories BUT when I complain about feeling tired or sick, he thinks that I making it sound worse than it is. 

WeLiveInMaine

I feel a little isolated because we aren't telling everyone yet and I just wanted to stay home for weeks.  I'm too tired to do much more than keep our two year old out of trouble.