TTC after 35

Trust the digitals? *Update*

2ndGeneration2ndGeneration member
edited October 2013 in TTC after 35
 "possible' bfp mentioned---

 Um, wow. I am due for AF in two days and had an ept digital that came free with the opk's. Today is my day off so I collected my fmu in a container and put it hidden in the fridge-not laying this on dh before he leaves for work, to avoid him stress. (he knows my cycle but prefers to be informed rather than participate in poas LOL).

 So now he and all kids are out of the house and I took it and BFP!

 Ok, I don't trust it. I'm an old-school two lines gal. I think I am running out to get something that involves lines. I feel crappy, like if I wasn't TTC I'd assume I was PMS.

 I am so glad to have you all to talk about this with!!! I can't exactly call my 40something friends, all of whom are way past this and some even grandparents, and say, hey wanna go to cvs with me to buy a second pregnancy test to go with the first one I took today?


*****Update*****  I ran out and got a 2 pk of FRER. As is typical for me, there was a VERY faint line-which historically for me means BFP! ( I never kick these tests dark positive till past my period date).  I'm going to resist the urge to go to dollar tree and buy a dozen tests...I'll wait till thu when af is due and use the other frer. Then if it's positive, I'll schedule an appt with my midwife to support progesterone, as we had discussed last week.

Re: Trust the digitals? *Update*

  • Congrats. I never used a digital but obviously they are accurate of you got 2 BFP. Yeah for you!!!!!
    I would call MW now so you can start on progesterone now. Maybe they can order betas and that will give you a definite.
    Good luck and woooo hoooo

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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  • Yea for you! Wish you the best!

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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  • Congrats! I would call your MW now and not wait. Wishing you a happy and healthy nine months!

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    Me: 37--Thyroid Cancer survivor. H:38. DS born 6/22/2011; BFP#2--11/5/12--Missed miscarriage discovered 12/21/2012.  BFP#3--5/20/14--another MMC 6/16/14.
  • Thanks ladies! I am going to test again on Thursday morn-I know 2 BFP's is probably positive but I'm not due for AF until then and...I had a 10 week loss in May so I'm super-cautious. Dh does'nt even know yet-he's still at work.
     But if it's pos on Thu, I will call the midwife first thing. It just doesn't seem real yet! I'm happy and scared, I don't think I will breathe until at least 12 weeks...
  • Congrats to you!!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • *Update again*

     Today I was due for AF-I took the other FRER and the second line was much darker! So now I believe it : ) Due June 20th.

     So far dh and I are calm, happy but calm. I've been taking my vitamins, I excersize and we live generally healthy lifestyles, and I'll call the midwife for progesterone (as she advised).
    We pray as well. I'm hoping for the best this time! I think I will wait to exhale until the first trimester is over...

     I'm hoping and praying for baby dust for all the amazing ladies here!!! This board is awesome and a blessing-you guys are so supportive of each other.
  • Awesome!!!!! I'm sure most of us lurk on Pg over 35 so we will follow you with this amazing journey you are going on. But just remember we are here for you also. Good luck to you

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

             imageimage

    All welcome

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