Parenting after a Loss

Random GTKY

Every morning when I leave for work DH and DD are still sleeping. I was about to call DH and ask him how the morning went: Did she finish her bottle? Was she cranky? Did you find the outfit I laid out for her? Then I realized, I've sorta stopped asking about him and how he's doing. Yes, we're parents now and our lives revolve around our baby, but I need to remember to ask about him too.

This made me want to get to know the rest of you better too. So who wants to participate in a random GTKY? It's mostly non-baby related but of course our lives do now revolve around little ones so all answers are welcome.  Bonus points for PIP!

1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away?
2. What was your most embarrassing hair style?
3. In what way are your parents out of date?
4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public?
5. What small business would you like to start?
6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate?
7. When was the last time you were lost?
8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use?
9. What is the nicest room in your house?
10. What was your favorite TV show growing up?

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  • Oooh, I totally want to do this but I leave work in like 5 minutes... It will have to wait until I get home! 
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  • I'll play! I've been MIA for a while but really don't feel like working today :)

    1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away? anything "bump watch" related

    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style? in 8th grade I got bangs but was too lazy to fix them. I had a natural part that just made the bangs do a little keyhole in my forehead every day. 
    3. In what way are your parents out of date? actually my parents are pretty up to date. My dad got a smart phone before me and then bought me one, otherwise I'd still be using my $20 flip phone. 
    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public? can't even remember. Probably the last time I was at a beach!
    5. What small business would you like to start? counseling practice specializing in perinatal bereavement. 
    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate? in most forms, no. But sometimes chocolate is put where it isn't meant to be. ex: chocolate wine. gross. 
    7. When was the last time you were lost? geographically? sometime before google maps was invented. metaphorically? every day :)
    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? from my TX roots: y'all, fixin' to, and calling everyone ma'am. 
    9. What is the nicest room in your house? maybe our bedroom? it's the only room that doesn't look like buy buy baby threw up in it since we only put the pnp in there at night. 
    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up? Full House and Saved By the Bell


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  • Here are my answers too:

    1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away? Facebook pictures of food. Maybe it's just me but unless it's super fancy and you never want to forget it, why would anybody take a picture of their soggy oatmeal?

    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style? I had the DJ Tanner flower blossom bangs, eeek!
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    3. In what way are your parents out of date? My mother doesn't do any online shopping but she has an iPhone and is addicted to Facebook.

    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public? Probably when my sandal strap broke while pregnant, so I just took them off and carried them with me so people wouldn't question my barefeet.

    5. What small business would you like to start? DH and I used to talk about a bike shop, where you can get repairs done, get your first bike, or any kind of gear you might need while out on a ride. He does the tune ups on our bikes, and he really enjoys getting his hands dirty. Unfortunately, neither of us has been out on our bikes in a long time so that idea may be long gone.

    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate? Sure, everything within reason for me.

    7. When was the last time you were lost? DH and I were doing some navigating with a map and a compass at a nearby state park a few years ago and I totally got us lost. Some trails that weren't trails got us confused on the map and we ending up in the brush just trying to head in a straight line and hope that eventually we made our way out. We finally did after an hour of bush-whacking, bug bites, and rain.

    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? I use "Totally" and "Awesome" way more than I should.

    9. What is the nicest room in your house? Definitely the baby's room. It's the only room that has a real decor, every other room is just thrown together.

    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up? I loved Fresh Prince!
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  • I'll play! I've been MIA for a while but really don't feel like working today :)

    1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away? anything "bump watch" related
    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? from my TX roots: y'all, fixin' to, and calling everyone ma'am. 
    Oh, agreed for #1!  And I forgot I also use y'all a lot.  It sneaks in when you least expect it. :)

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  • 1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away?  Miley Cyrus's tongue


    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style?  The perm I sported from 2nd grade through 6th grade.


    3. In what way are your parents out of date?  Even though he is retired, my dad doesn't do a single thing to help my mom around the house.


    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public?  


    5. What small business would you like to start?  Career Services for adults


    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate?  Yes! I am lactose intolerant, so there DEFINITELY is a thing as too much!


    7. When was the last time you were lost?  About 7 years ago, I had a job interview outside of Chicago, and the mapquest I printed wasn't clear about one of the turn offs, I got insanely lost and called DH (boyfriend at the time) to help.  He provides directions in north, south, east, west and that is NOT how my brain works.  I was screaming and crying, "JUST TELL ME TO TURN LEFT OR RIGHT!"


    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use?  "Right!?!?!"


    9. What is the nicest room in your house?   Our kitchen


    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up?   Perfect Strangers...remember Balki?  Anyone?


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  • 1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away? News about Miley cyrus.
    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style? Choppy bangs lol in 5th grade
    3. In what way are your parents out of date? My mom doesn't understand tablet or computer things...anything touch screen. My dad is sort of the same, but he does not like a lot of music now days.
    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public? Swimming?
    5. What small business would you like to start? Photography. I'm starting now but it has been hard lately.
    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate? I love chocolate but I have limits.
    7. When was the last time you were lost? I can't remember.
    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? Pretty much the same as PP
    9. What is the nicest room in your house? Living room and dining room
    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up? Charmed and friends.
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  • I love all these answers!  Y'all are so great for playing along!

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  • 1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away? REALITY TELEVISION AND SOCIAL MEDIA/ FACEBOOK. I KNOW I AM THE LAST PERSON ON THE PLANET NOT ON FACEBOOK BUT REALLY, CAN'T FRIENDS (REAL ONES, NOT RANDOMS YOU'VE "FRIENDED" - HOW DID THAT GET TO BE A VERB, BTW?) PICK UP THE PHONE OR VISIT EACH OTHER TO TALK IF THEY HAVE SOMETHING TO SHARE? BY WHICH I MEAN SOMETHING INTERESTING OR RELEVANT, NOT WHAT YOU HAD FOR BREAKFAST.
    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style? FRESHMAN YEAR OF COLLEGE I CUT MY BERY LONG HAIR BOYISHLY SHORT...WITH A SMALL BRAIDED "TAIL" IN BACK. BE KIND - IT WAS 1989 AFTER ALL.
    3. In what way are your parents out of date? THEY HAVE AND CARRY RATHER VINTAGE CELL PHONES BUT DON'T TURN THEM ON UNLESS THEY NEED TO MAKE A CALL. WHICH MAKES REACHING THEM IN AN EMERGENCY INTERESTING.
    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public? I THINK I MAY HAVE BEEN BAREFOOT IN THE OR DURING MY CSECTION LAST MONTH - IS THAT PUBLIC ENOUGH?
    5. What small business would you like to start? FREELANCE LEGAL ADVISING IN MY NICHE AREA (TO GET OUT OF BIG FIRM LIFE) OR A SMALL SHOP WITH INTERESTING BABY GEAR (INCLUDING SPECIALTY PRODUCTS AND EDUCATION FOR BABES WITH ISSUES, FROM COLIC AND REFLUX TO MORE SERIOUS THINGS. WITH MY SON'S REFLUX AND ISSUES I OFTEN FELT LIKE I WAS AN ALIEN IN REGULAR BABY STORES THAT PRESUME BABIES ALL NEED, LIKE OR CAN DO THE SAME THINGS ).
    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate? I LOVE CHOCOLATE, BUT YES, THERE IS.
    7. When was the last time you were lost? TRULY LOST? ON OUR HONEYMOON WE WERE TAKING A TRAIN AROUND ITALY AND WE MISSED A STOP ON OUR WY TO COMO...AND ENDED UP IN SWITZERLAND. LATE AT NIGHT. AND HAD TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET BACK. AND ALL WE HAD WAS EUROS AND THEY DID NOT TAKE EUROS. IT WAS STRESSFUL.
    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? OBVIOUSLY AND YA'KNOW.
    9. What is the nicest room in your house? THE KITCHEN. HANDS DOWN. WE RE-DID IT A FEW YEARS AGO AND IT IS A SMALL ROOM BUT IT IS TRICKED OUT QUITE NICELY.
    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up? MOONLIGHTING. YES, I'M OLD.

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  • 1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away? The pressure on young girls to grow up too fast, be sexy, etc.... Also, Miley Cyrus and Gangnam Style
    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style? As a child of the 80's/ 90's I fear there are too many to list. But we'll go with the awful perm I had at about 9 years old, complete with huge poofy bangs
    3. In what way are your parents out of date? Trying to Skype with my dad is always hilarious. He also has a dinosaur of a cell phone, and refuses to get a Facebook acct.
    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public? At church this past Sunday. Although technically I am barefoot in public right now, as my shoes are off under my desk. But I put them back on if I have to get up and walk around the office.
    5. What small business would you like to start? A food truck and/ or Italian specialty store- but everything sold would be made locally. Fresh pasta, sauces, salumi, etc.
    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate? Yes. I enjoy chocolate, but not so much chocolate cake (lava cake being the exception) or chocolate ice cream. Give me a reese's or good Swiss chocolate any day though. 
    7. When was the last time you were lost? Can't remember! I was blessed with a good sense of direction, and now w/ GPS, it's almost impossible to get lost.
    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? I've been known to use the words "sweet," "word," and "totally" WAY too often! 
    9. What is the nicest room in your house? The nursery! Every other room is a mish mash. We rent, so no big reno's any time soon.
    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up? As a younger child- Duck Tales, Gummy Bears, and David The Gnome. As I got older- Saved By The Bell, Charmed, and Fresh Prince!
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  • 1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away?

    Miley Cyrus and Twerking. I saw her on the Today Show yesterday and the Media is doing exactly what she wanted them to do, 1 month later everyone is still talking about it. She has a great voice, she's just expressing herself in ways most wouldn't. She's 20 year old. I can only imagine if my life was publicized at 20.

     2. What was your most embarrassing hair style?

    I don't know if I had an embarrassing hair style, my Mom is a cosmetologist and I always kept up with the trends and nothing ever long.

     3. In what way are your parents out of date?

    My Parents are much more technically savvy than I am. I can't do much on a computer, I am simple and they can create all kinds of things that I couldn't even imagine creating.

     

     4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public?

    I would say the Beach, it's hard to walk in the sand with sandals and then you want all the sand off your feet until you get to the car. But being barefoot also doesn't bother me.

     5. What small business would you like to start?

    Bakery, most definitely. I love to bake and do it for fun. I went to school to be a pastry chef but would never do it for a living.

     6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate?

    I don't think it's possible to have too much chocolate EVER.

     7. When was the last time you were lost?

    With a smart phone and google maps I have no idea when the last time I was lost?

     8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use?

    Cray Cray, I do call everyone Ma'am and I was born and raised in California for 26 years and that is not typical. One thing I picked up living in Texas.

     9. What is the nicest room in your house?

    All are pretty equal and I can not take any credit. All our decorating and ideas are DH and my MIL. I just say what I would like and they create it.

    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up?

    90210, Saved By the Bell Fresh Prince of Bellaire and Full House

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  • Love this!  So interesting to read everyone's responses.


    1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away?

    Reality television 


    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style?

    The perm I got in 7th grade 


    3. In what way are your parents out of date?

    In what way are they not is a better question.  My father is from rural Ireland- he emigrated in his 20s- and he's not in touch with most things- he doesn't watch television, doesn't see movies, thought me wearing a bikini to the beach in high school was akin to prostitution...oy!

     
    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public?

    Probably the beach this summer.


    5. What small business would you like to start?

    A bookstore/coffee shop.  Or my own lobbying firm.


    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate?

    No.  Absolutely not.


    7. When was the last time you were lost?

    Today on my way back from a meeting when I decided to return our broken DVR to a Verizon store.

     
    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use?

    Wicked as an adverb.  That's wicked cool.  I am wicked tired. What can I say, I am a Massachusetts girl.  


    9. What is the nicest room in your house?

    Our great room.  Vaulted ceiling, built in bookshelves, wide pine floors.

    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up?

    In elementary school, You Can't Do That on Television and Punky Brewster.  In high school, Party of Five. 


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  • melly918melly918 member
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     I'll play, only because for once I am online at home which never happens and I can actually use a keyboard, not the iPad at work which is a PITA!
    1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away?  the ridiculously stupid names that celebrities give their kids.  North West.

    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style?  I was a senior in high school, two months before my sister's wedding, the hairdresser chopped the top of my hair off (and it was the early 1990s where long curly hair with big bangs were in). It looked horrible. I bawled all day. It took ages to grow out and I looked like a dork. My escort for the wedding was BIL's brother, who happened to be a starving actor in Hollywood back then.


    3. In what way are your parents out of date?  They use basic cable. I mean BASIC. Like 12 channels. They have cable just so the picture is clear...but it isn't cable!


    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public?  Last week.  I stomped out of my house to the car parked on the street in front of my house and gave this video back to this religious group who likes to go door to door to solicit people. I won't name names here. I was fuming. I told them we were not interested and not to come back!


    5. What small business would you like to start?  My own bakery-cafe 


    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate?  Pshaw! Never!


    7. When was the last time you were lost?  That's a toughie. I'm really good with maps. I understand them pretty well and was able to travel within many European cities.  I guess I would have to say it was when we were in Boston three years ago..we needed to head to the Cape and we missed our exit so we ended up going back towards the city! Every exit we tried to get off caused us to go around in circles.  The GPS on my Blackberry (not a smartphone back then) saved us.


    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? None..I guess I'm boring.


    9. What is the nicest room in your house?  None at this point...every room is a disaster. I would say the bathtub is my favorite spot. That and my bed.


    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up?  Full House


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  • Every morning when I leave for work DH and DD are still sleeping. I was about to call DH and ask him how the morning went: Did she finish her bottle? Was she cranky? Did you find the outfit I laid out for her? Then I realized, I've sorta stopped asking about him and how he's doing. Yes, we're parents now and our lives revolve around our baby, but I need to remember to ask about him too.

    We so just had a VERY similar conversation about how we still need to be a couple AND we still need to do our individual things.

    1. What part of pop culture do you wish would just go away? Miley Cyrus
    2. What was your most embarrassing hair style? Bed head?? 
    3. In what way are your parents out of date? Texting! OMG it is bad!
    4. When was the last time you went barefoot in public? I am at work right now barefoot does that count?
    5. What small business would you like to start? Animal rescue
    6. Is there such a thing as too much chocolate? I do not really like chocolate so yes
    7. When was the last time you were lost? No clue
    8. What slang word or phrase do you love to use? crackalackin!
    9. What is the nicest room in your house? My dining room! 
    10. What was your favorite TV show growing up? Not just one show but TGIF!!

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