I was expecting this and suuuure enough "Do you want to take the girls for Christmas?" The answer is always YES. But Jesus. BM had SDs for Christmas in 2009, Thanksgiving 2010 and then no holidays since...voluntarily. She spends it with her boyfriend who has like 4 kids so its not like she's kid free and the girls would really enjoy a holiday with BFs kids. Whatever, I love love love Christmas (she apparently hates it?) and I love having them here for Christmas but I worry they will be hurt by this in the long run.
Im planning already. I think there are some Christmasy things to do that they would like. The best one is Dec 7th though and they won't be here yet so thats a bummer. I really really really hope we can move up there this spring.
Re: Holidays
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Enjoy your time!!