I know he didn't mean anything by it...

melissaraemurphy

But our friend we just had over for dinner (single guy, 28ish) asked if I was working all the way up until I had the baby. When I said yes, he asked "will you be able to fit behind the wheel when you are that big to drive to work?"

Uh. What?

I'm already fluffy, and have HUGE self confidence issues. This really helped.

Then he proceeded to tell me that his girlfriend he plans to marry will probably be one of those girls who just is all belly, then will shrink RIGHT back down.

I am praying she gets really, really fat. Is that so wrong?! 

I know it's probably just me being emotional, but I really want to go punch him in the nads right now!

myfriendscallmemeg

No, no, no, no, no. Not wrong. He deserves nad-punching! In the wise words of Juno "I am a sacred vessel, all you have in your stomach is Taco Bell."

You are seriously growing another human being. That was a douchey single man comment. I wouldn't worry about what he said. All that matters is that you & your little babe are healthy. It's hard being fluffy....but i know it's all going to be worth it!

PinupMomma08

Douche. And God forbid she does get huge, he going to dump her?

What a man.

ju0725

Ran into my friends father today, he said "aww you're getting fat". This friend had an eating disorder she still struggles with today. I think I see why...

EML2011

Those comments would just make me stare him down until he realized how ridiculous he's being...

rachbaby1

Gee wonder why that gem is still single.

bunniekrissy

Part 1 - not very funny attempt at humor
Part 2 - insensitive and very socially inappropriate

Sorry to had to encounter such a jerk.

springbaby03

Whata ass!
I hope you burned the hell outta his dinner.

melissaraemurphy

I ended up not saying anything. Telling you guys made me feel much better!! (And knowing I wasn't wrong in my thinking!!)

katykatykaty

PinupMomma08 said:

Douche. And God forbid she does get huge, he going to dump her? What a man.

Probably.  What a jerk. 

KariB509

Men are just really stupid.
The other day a male client asked my 43 year old boss if she was pregnant... Poor thing's had 3 kids and has a pouch like every other mom in history! My coworker gave him SO MUCH SHIT for it the next time she saw his dumb ass.

linzerd

I can see nad punching for the "my gf is perfect and will be like a movie star when she gets pg"  But honestly I've wondered myself about fitting behind the wheel in a few mos.  And I'm no skinny mini, either.  That wouldn't have insulted me, I would have just laughed right along with him and said "haha, I know, right?!?!

lesleygosooners

I would have asked him if he planned on getting a penis enlargement surgery in the future.

PerkyErky

Nad punch totally appropriate. And the comment about his girlfriend and if she gets pregnant...unnecessary. Sigh people are idiots, especially single males who have never really dealt with a pregnant woman.