Eating some crow here...

PrimRoseMama

Remember that ridiculousness about the FB group rules? Well, I feel super stupid ever defending that group on here. Why? Because even if you do your best to follow the dumb list of requirements they still dump you.

I tried to be as helpful, and active on there as I am on here. Apparently that wasn't good enough & they booted me over the weekend. I feel phenomenally dumb because I agreed & tried to be a "good member".

So I really tried to defend them when people told me how idiotic and lame they were being. No good deeds go unpunished apparently.

Eh, fuck it. They are the ones missing out, IMHO. I'll take my TB girls over that lamesauce any day.

Stina2012

FB Groups = The Devil

Dumb, dumb, dumb de dumb.

Jasmineeelizabeth

What was the reason they gave you? Or did they?

atlvol

Lame!

Stina2012

Citrusfamily said:

Well, that speaks to their character, not yours.

Dude, you are such a Mom! This is totally Mom advice!

PrimRoseMama

etoille said:

what happened?

I go to do what I normally do. You know lurk & post. Then I discover, much to my dismay, that the group is no longer in my groups & newsfeed. No personal message. No warning. I've been super supportive over as much as I could be. I'm there as much as I am here. Every day.

PrimRoseMama

Citrusfamily said:

Well, that speaks to their character, not yours.

Thank you! Apparently I "posted enough to stay legal but did not actively participate" WTF? I posted a bunch there.

PrimRoseMama

Jasmineeelizabeth said:

What was the reason they gave you? Or did they?

They are too chicken shit to respond to my PM.

sdtchica13

Ew, so immature of them, fuck em!

MRads

I like a lot of you, and would feel comfortable in a FB group with you now. But that FB was created practically before my pee stick was dry. It just really doesn't seem smart to allow access to all of your personal information before I could even recognize SN. They are crazy. All of them.

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Kitten80

ramy3695 said:

Wtf? How childish. We should start our own FB group for the cool kids of J13.

definitely. As long as I can be a cool kid or tag along

M0ON

lizabethann06 said:

 In all seriousness, who has time for that crazy crap? I can barely remember to eat and shower let alone " did I post 8 times and interact appropriately with 5 people on my Internet board ."

This! Honestly, I have to be so economical with my rare bouts of downtime. I can't imagine wasting a second of it worrying about a FB group's rules.

sparkymcgeee

I'm not gonna say I told you so buuuuttt...

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Effffff em.

valstulas

Bitches be crazy!

I tried to join that group right before they made it a closed group a long-ass time ago. They never accepted my request. I spent about 5 minutes thinking about it/being butthurt before I realized they were super lamesauce. The fact that they booted you? Confirmation of their super lamesauce status.

Wonder if we can petition FB to add "super lamesauce" to status update options. Then change the group's status to it.

PrimRoseMama

Meimsx said:

I'm not gonna say I told you so buuuuttt...

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I'm woman enough to admit I was so very wrong about this. I feel so irritated that I stuck up for folks that think its alright to pull this shit.

So I talked with an admin who says I didn't "share enough" because pictures, supportive words, and daily encouragement when I can is simply not sufficient?

I'm not sure how I could have shared more? I shared photos & personal stories. They felt I was lurking more than posting. Liking doesn't count, one word answers don't count, short answers don't count.

And bullshit that "it's not personal". Um, I got voted off the damn island by people I stuck up for, counted as friends & shared personal info with. How the fuck isn't it personal?

Anyone who says I am not supportive enough is not paying motherfucking attention.

So I'm angry and feel like a fool for ever joining. Never again. Lesson learned here.

jemasa33

Well we are glad to have you here. I bet all the people in the fb group were the drive bys who joined together in a j13 hurt my feelings group.

Stina2012

FB Groups, Never Again.

I just don't dig FB groups. TB fulfills my Internet stranger friend quota.

andrea0418

I debated joining but then I heard about all the rules. I don't like rules!
Anyway, we love you Prim! They're just jealous of all your coolness

valstulas

I can understand. I thought their rules were reasonable, even though I, personally, wouldn't give a sh!t if someone never posted.

Based on your posts here, I have no doubt that you were supportive. It truly is their short-sightedness to blame. We love you and would never want to boot you!

PrimRoseMama

Thanks y'all. I figured out who my real e-friends are!

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Stina2012

mermomo5 said:

Who are they?? I joined early on but wasn't super active, I missed so much. I'm betting they are reading this, should we send tissues! I hate fb group's and who has time for rules.

The only FB one I remember is the firefighter wife one. She seemed ok. But I have no clue who everyone else is!

KikiCohen

I totally forgot about that ridiculous group and their "rules".  Lame.  Totes lame.

PrimRoseMama

Apparently frequency and "quality" of posting? I defended that shit when people called it lame back in the beginning of our pregnancies. That's when I thought common sense would prevail. Apparently not. I seriously could kick myself for believing in them.

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andrea0418

LadyBlue07 said:

Ooh, are they going to come over and start a fight again?

And I would join a group with everyone now. I'm really curious about what everyone looks like. And I'm nosy.

I'm sure one of the facebook members saw this an they're all over there now talking about us badasses. They are afraid to come reply!
And I agree we need a Facebook group now with all the cool kids!

Myrrhaj

Screw those biznatches, Prim. We love you and we're pretty stinkin' awesome here at J13, if I do say so myself.

To quote the late, great Dr. Seuss:

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

PrimRoseMama

I appreciate y'all so much! J13 fo lyfe!

Carrie3102

Hey @primrosemama don't let those snooty bitches get you down. We love you and that group was doomed to be douchtastic from the get go.

I told facebook groups are the debil. Chin up the cool kids play here.

cuterusaurus

Yep we love you here!

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atlvol

It's better here anyway junk them!

Clyde013

I'm not familiar with the group. Actually I was only ever on fb for a week but what you're describing sounds ridiculous! They suck- you don't.

Liz4444

I'm with @meimsx in the I told you so group. People got so pissed when I said the whole thing was going to implode..

You're way too cool for them, prim!

EagleWife

PrimRoseMama said:

Citrusfamily said:

Well, that speaks to their character, not yours.

Thank you! Apparently I "posted enough to stay legal but did not actively participate" WTF? I posted a bunch there.

This cracks me up and reminds me of Office Space.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=U5YClmS3umk&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DU5YClmS3umk

Glad we don't have to share you anymore, Prim!

PrimRoseMama

EagleWife said:

PrimRoseMama said:

Citrusfamily said:

Well, that speaks to their character, not yours.

Thank you! Apparently I "posted enough to stay legal but did not actively participate" WTF? I posted a bunch there.

This cracks me up and reminds me of Office Space.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=U5YClmS3umk&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DU5YClmS3umk

Glad we don't have to share you anymore, Prim!

Haha yes!
Hey FB group:


You lost a great, supportive member who really tried to be real.

@liz4444 : I deserve all the "I told you so"!

Dani428

Hahaha that's so pathetic that they actually monitor the "quality" of someone's posts. Responses that are too short - really ?!?!? Here's a response for them .... STFU! Their loss prim!

Pink724

We're glad you're here, prim. And I tend to think the quality of your posts is generally quite high. Eff them.

valstulas

@Stina2012 That firefighter chick rubbed me the wrong way. Way back in the beginning someone had started a thread about how her husband was "gross" (ie never cleaned the house, washed his hands, etc) and she was worried he would get the baby sick. I told her not to worry bc things like a counter full of dirty dishes or not-quite-clean floors can inoculate your kid (obviously in the figurative sense of the word). Her response? "Um, like, I'm totally sure that dirty dishes don't vaccinate your kid."

She was clearly in @ramy3695's second rule re: how to conduct yourself on a Internet forum. Bye, guhrl, BYYYEEE!