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Intro: Newb here... looking for and to give support!

Jkerr924Jkerr924 member
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Hello everyone. I'm new here, but looks like I'm in the right place. My heart is heavy reading about all of your losses- hugs to you all!!! I'm encouraged to see that everyone seems super supportive  Sometimes it really seems like people just don't understand. My husband (31) and I (28) have been TTC for the past year and a half. I have a didelphic uterus, 2 ovaries, 1 tube removed from an ectopic pregnancy 10/1/12, and lost my sweet baby boy 1 month ago 9/4/13 at 19 weeks. Before TTC I had a septum and endometriosis removed. A week after delivering last month I had to have a d&c to clear left over debris and am now impatiently waiting for my follow up appointment where maybe they can give us some kind of information from genetic testing. Bleeding stopped Saturday which is a small step forward but with counting every single day that goes by... seems like a huge milestone.
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  • abryarsabryars member
    I'm sorry for your loss and all that you've been through. I hope you find the support you're looking for here. Welcome to the board.
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     ~Married August 27, 2011~

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  • kalynn12kalynn12 member
    ((Hugs)) I am so sorry for your losses, welcome to the board. I hope your follow up visit gives you some answers.
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

    *~*~*Everybody is Welcome*~*~*

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  • CallaLily30CallaLily30 member

    I'm very sorry to hear about your losses.  Welcome to the board.  I hope you find support here.

    I also have a didelphic uterus and two ovaries. 

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    BFP #1: 1/4/13, EDD 9/8/13, Missed M/C confirmed 2/8/13, Misoprostol

    2013: Three CPs w/ EDDs: EDD 2/10/14, EDD 3/24/14, EDD 6/24/14

    IVF/ICSI #1 (Antagonist) - Jan 2014- 19R, 14M, 11F, 3 penguins (6BB, 4BB, 6BC)  PGD tested- All Normal!

    IVF/ICSI #2 (Antagonist) - Feb 2014 - 23R, 11M, 10F, 1 penguin (3BB) - Another Normal!

    FET #1 - March 26, BFN

    FET #2- Beta #1 (9dp5dt) -332, Beta #2 (11dp5dt) -1027, EDD 1/30/2015, Missed M/C, D&C 6/19/14

    IVF/ICSI #3 (Lupron Down Reg) - Oct 2014 - 38R, 28M, 27F, 20 frozen on day 5, 16 normal penguins!!

    FET#3 - February 1, 2015, Prep begins 1/13

    All Welcome!

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  • clh4444clh4444 member
    I am sorry for your losses and hope you find out some answers at your next doctor's visit. Everyone here is fantastic and supportive so it's a good place to be while we heal.

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    TTC since July 2012 Me(42): normal HSG low progesterone 2.5 and TSH 13.9 DH(41): normal SA
    • 10 cycles no meds, July 2012 -March 2013: BFN
    • Cycle 11 - Chlomid and IUI April 6, 2013 BFN
    • Cycle 12 Chlomid but canceled IUI so only TI BFN
    • Cycle 13 - On break from meds - suprise BFP - ended in CP June 11, 2013
    • Cycle 14 - TTA BFN
    • Cycle 15 - 17 - Break from meds and doctor, trying on own BFN
    • Cycle 18 Chlomid and TI BFN
    • Cycle 19 BFN ...  onto Cycle 20
    • .........
    • Cycle I have no fricken clue anymore but still BFN
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  • ashellypnutashellypnut member
    Oh my, I'm sorry for your losses but welcome to the board. This is an incredibly supportive place. I've found it very helpful and fulfilling to offer support to others here (and it's amazing to get it too). GL to you on this journey. Xoxo

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    Me: 38, DH: 40 | Married April 2012 | TTC since October 2012  

    DX: Hypothyroid, DOR, Right Tube Blocked, Uterine Fibroid (awaiting hysteroscopy) | DH: Beta Thal Minor, ED (Cialis)

    OCT - DEC 2012 | TI | BFN

    JAN 2013 | BFP ~ EDD 9/23/13

    MAR 2013 | MMC due to Trisomy 10 ~ D&E MAR. 8

    APR - JUN 2013 | TTA

    JUL - NOV 2013 | TI |  BFN

    NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus

    DEC 2013 - JAN 2014 | NTNP |  BFN ~ Switched to new practice

    JAN - FEB 2014 | 3-D u/s & SHG ~ Uterine Fibroid ~ Awaiting Hysteroscopy

    ***All Are Welcome!***

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  • carlsonbaby2014carlsonbaby2014 member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss (((hugs))) welcome to our board
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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  • Eliz77Eliz77 member
    I am so very sorry for your losses. I hope you get some answers at your appointment and are able to make a plan for moving forward. ((hugs))

    ~ES~

    ~*~EVERYONE always welcome!!~*~
    TTC #1 since October 2012
    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss and for your struggles!  The women here are amazing and I'm sure that you will find the support that you are needing!  Take time to heal and I hope that your stay here is short!
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    Sorry for the loss of your sweet son, welcome to TTCAL

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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
    Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013

    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
    Please be our ra    inbow!!

    **All AL Welcome**

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  • taberbtbtaberbtb member
    I am so sorry you find yourself here, welcome. I hope you get some answers at your follow up.






     


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    TTC Since 04/01/13 

    BFP #1 04/28/13 Its twins! EDD 01/08/2014 MMC confirmed 06/27/13 D&C 07/17/13

    BFP#2 05/19/14 EDD 01/30/2015 Please be our rainbow!

    My Ovulation Chart

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  • buggirl72buggirl72 member
    I am so sorry for your loss but welcome to the board.

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  • LaRomana09LaRomana09 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board.  (((HUGS)))

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    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
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  • KMW08KMW08 member
    I'm sorry for your losses and that you're finding yourself here.

    BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!

    DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart

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  • jbasore1123jbasore1123 member
    I'm so sorry you find yourself here and for all you've gone through. Welcome

    TTC since April 2012

    BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013

    BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013

    6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)

    IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab

    IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!

    FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN

    Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

    IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos



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  • SammyT1234SammyT1234 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss xoxo
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  • MrsWallickMrsWallick member
    So sorry for your loss! Welcome! (((Hugs)))

    BFP #1: 3/23/13, EDD: 11/22/13, MC: 4/2/13
    Convinced it was a boy and missing him every day!
    BFP #2: 10/25/13, EDD: 7/3/14, Grow baby Grow! Anabelle Rose born 6/6/14 

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  • lindsebertlindsebert member
    So very sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. FX that you can move forward and get some answers from the testing. ((Hugs))
    TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

    BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
     BFP #3 2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

    Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism

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  • RedTwizzlersRedTwizzlers member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + Cytotec.
    Operative hysteroscopy to remove septum 9/18/13.
    BFP #3 12/24/13. Natural m/c 1/17/14.
    BFP #4 3/20/14. Natural m/c 4/3/14.

    Blog   Chart

    Formerly known as MrsE07
    PgAL/PAL Welcome

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  • nyg2042nyg2042 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

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  • kateithokateitho member
    I'm very sorry for your loss, but glad you found us here.  This is an awesome group of supportive ladies!
    BFP 11/24/2012  MMC 1/21/2013 - BFP 3/29/2013  MC 4/8/2013 - BFP 4/25/2013 MC 5/6/2013 - 5/17/2013 Diagnosed with LPD - BFP 8/24/13  MC 9/6/2013
    BFP: 12/19/13  - Beta [email protected]: 26.8 - Beta [email protected]: 3,672
    Our Rainbow Son Born August 26, 2014
    Lilypie - (nueR)
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  • londonmummylondonmummy member
    So sorry that you have to be here! Hugs
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  • gingerkid9989gingerkid9989 member

    I'm very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  I hope you find the support here you need.  This is a great group of ladies!

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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  • LifeofCatLifeofCat member

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet son. I hope you get some more information soon.

     

    Be good to yourself <3

    ~All are welcome~
    MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

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  • MrsMegan922MrsMegan922 member

    I am so sorry for your losses. I lurk a lot, but I hope that you find this board supportive.

    (HUGS)

     

     

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    BFP #1 7/31/09 - m/c 8/22/09

    BFP #2 4/15/10 - DD born 12/31/10

    TTC #2 since July 2012

    BFP #3 9/24/12 - m/c 10/15/12

    Dx PCOS/LPD 5/2013 - Rx Metformin (1500mg) and GF diet

    BFP #4 6/10/13 - CP 6/12/13

    8/2013 Rx for low dose Naltrexone

    9/2013 DH's SA showed low motility/morph/viability

    10/2013 Lap removed multiple areas of scar tissue adhesions and opened blocked tube.

    BFP #5 1/24/2014 - EDD 10/3/2014

    This could be it! Grow baby!

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  • ktwils2010ktwils2010 member
    I am so sorry for your loss! And struggles, lots of hugs to you. :( I hope you can get some answers soon. Be kind to yourself and rest!


    Married 8.1.2010
    DD #1: Arrived 10.7.2011
    TTC #2 Since March 2013
    BFP 5.20.2013, EDD 1.26.2014, natural mc @ 5 wks 5.25.2013
    BFP 6.21.2013, EDD 3.14.2014, Twins - missed mc @ 7w6d, D&C 8.6.2013
    BFP 10.7.2013, EDD June 20 2014 - It's a GIRL!   

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  • CaitNMattCaitNMatt member
    You've definitely found the right place!! I am so sorry to hear about your losses and struggles.

    A little bit about me...

    Married my awesome guy on 12/27/08

    DD Lucy Rae born on 11/16/2010

    Loss #1: November 29, 2012 at 8w1d

    Loss #2: June 9, 2013 at 13w (Amelia Grace)

    BFP #4: We are having a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peter Matthew was born on July 16, 2014!!! Welcome to our family!

     

     "If anyone asks me how many children I have, the answer is 4. Just two of them live in Heaven."

    *All are welcome in my posts*

     

     

     
     
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  • jenkellenjenkellen member
    I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you get some answers from your genetic testing. You have been through so much, welcome.

    "It's, not, where you are, it's where you're going,
    And it's, not, about the things you've done, it's what you're doing, now"
    TTC Journey Began 8/12
    BFP #1 11/9/12, MMC/D&C 12/21/12 @ 9w2d, EDD 7/24/13
    SAs: 2%-3% Morph - RE Official Diagnosis Unexplained
     BFN = IUI #1 (Clomid) | IUI #2 (Letrozole) 
    BFP #2 4/19/14 = IUI #3 (Letrozole)
    Expecting Our Elf 12/27/14
    ~All Welcome~

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  • slensicslensic member
    I am so sorry for the loss of your son! I am sorry you find yourself here but welcome! ((hugs))

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    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Anniversary

    BFP#1 9/25/10 DD born 6/9/11
    BFP#2 8/1/13 MC 8/31/13
    BFP#3 11/2/13 EDD 7/15/14 Stick baby Stick
    1st u/s 11/26/13 at 7w, measuring right on track and a heartbeat of 139bpm
    NT Scan 1/6/14 at 12w 6d, normal healthy squirmy baby measuring right on track heartbeat of 147bpm
    1st 2nd tri Scan 2/3/14 at 16w 6d, very healthy baby BOY!
    A/S 3/4/14 still a very healthy BOY, measuring right on track!
    DS born 7/9/14


    All always welcome

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  • Drgn30Drgn30 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses.  I hope this board helps you find some peace and support.

    BFP 7/16/13, EDD 3/27/14 - blighted ovum  - D&C 8/26/13
    Dx PCOS and Septate Uterus
    Septum Resection - 2/6/14
    brand new cuterus
    March 2014:   first medicated cycle + iui     = BFP!
    Baby Drgn born December 3, 2014

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  • HeyMrsPotterHeyMrsPotter member
    I'm very sorry for your losses. Welcome.
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  • Skor1nicSkor1nic member
    Sorry for you loss, its not an easy thing. 
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  • Poppy715Poppy715 member
    I'm so very sorry for your losses. This is a great place to give and get support. Welcome. Join us in the signature challenge! There are plenty of hot men to go around! Please join a check-in and jump right in after reading the blog and lurking for a little bit. ((hugs))

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     and GBCB

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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