Please...anybody come in and tell me that your 3 year old has no interest at all?!? We've tried sticker charts, rewards, ipad on the potty, praise him when he has done it every now and again. We've also tried taking him outside to let him try to pee. He's done it once, but doesn't want to do it anymore. Every time I ask him to sit on the potty he yells, "no potty!" I've even said back to him yes we are going to try and when I try to sit him on the potty he kicks his legs and jumps off, refusing! I don't want to force him and my pedi even said not to. I'm not into any kind of method that requires timelines and forcing. Dr said it is healthier for him to be ready on his own and I agree, but when I see all kinds of other people with their children trained I feel like I'm failing. He just turned 3 in August, so I know he is still young, but I see lots of 2 year olds trained already! :-(
Ugh...tell me I am not alone?!
PPD/PPA Mom...it has been super hard, but I'm making it! Slow steps...
Mom to Carter (6), and Calianne (1).
Proud VBAC, natural birth, breastfeeding, cloth diapering momma!
Re: Am I alone? 3 year old DS refusing 99% of the time!
Mom to Carter (6), and Calianne (1).
Proud VBAC, natural birth, breastfeeding, cloth diapering momma!
Mom to Carter (6), and Calianne (1).
Proud VBAC, natural birth, breastfeeding, cloth diapering momma!
Me: 37 DH: 39 DS: 4
However, my daughter (19 mo old) is really interested and actually pooed on the potty a few days ago! She pees and poos literally twenty times a day, so it was an inevitability, and I'm not really thinking she'll potty train too soon... However, my son became so determined to use the potty and wear underwear after that, I'm hoping it will move things along!
In fact, he is in an 'older' class at school (3-4) so he is actually the only kid in diapers there. I thought that would be a driving force, but he doesn't seem to care at all. So we'll see if the sibling rivalry does the trick.
I am right there with you!! I just posted about this on the 24+ page. Its so frustrating. My son just turned three and I am trying to start potty training him but he really wants nothing to do with it. He will pee himself and he doesnt even care. I have tried treats, bigh boy undies, bottomless, etc. He doesnt care. He gets too caught up in what he is doing, he doesnt want to take the time out to use the potty....until BEDTIME!!! Then he uses it as an excuse to procrastinate and get out of bed! I guess the good thing is we dont see too many adult walking around in diapers so I guess no matter what, they learn eventually, right!??!? At least that is what I tell myself! Good Luck!
Mom to Carter (6), and Calianne (1).
Proud VBAC, natural birth, breastfeeding, cloth diapering momma!
Me: 28 H: 28 DS: 4
Trinitrotoluene: "My ears have been deflowered ....my mouth just hasn't been!"
After an incredibly bad holiday season with relatives questioning my parenting ability bc he wasnt pt, and an awful day of nasty #2's, I got annoyed and told him it was time to use the big boy potty. I put undies on him (which has never worked before but he got new ninja turtle ones for Christmas), and sat the little potty in the living room where he sees it more. I dragged out our 'treasure box' I had made months ago with small wrapped toys for him to get after pottying, and explained how it worked one more time.
Something just clicked! It was awesome. He immediately started using it and has for the last few days (except during naps and night times of course!). He's so proud of himself now and uses the potty by himself without me saying a word or constantly asking if he needs to go, like I used to.
I've always heard that one day it'll just click for them, and it really did with him (with a little prodding from me initiating the process!). So don't feel bad! I was beginning to think he would go to high school prom in diapers, but I'm so relieved that we are finally on the right track! Don't give up and don't think you're a failure. I've done this same thing a couple times through the last 6-7 months after he turned three with no results. And it's finally worked! Just keep on, momma!
My issue is allowing him to go around in his big boy undies and having accidents. I have a harder time letting go and being okay with me cleaning up pee off the floor. I know it's not a big deal and I never scold him but I usually rely on diapers or pull ups so I don't have to clean the mess. Boo on me!
Mom to Carter (6), and Calianne (1).
Proud VBAC, natural birth, breastfeeding, cloth diapering momma!