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Can I come back?

As much as I hate why I'm returning, I love you ladies and know that I will be welcomed. I'm not sure how active I will be at first but I'll try and offer support to you all. And I'll probably need support in the first few weeks as well.

For those who don't lurk on PgAL, I went in for my 9w u/s yesterday to discover that we have lost yet another baby. This is our third m/c after seeing a healthy heartbeat and my OB is thinking it might be genetic. He will be referring us to a specialist in Toronto. I'm not really sure where or what or when but I think that it will be discussed in more detail when I got back for my 6 week follow up.

I'm scheduled for a D&C today, which will be my 3rd one. I'm nervous and can't believe that we're heading down this road yet again. It just plain sucks.
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Started TTC June 2010
BFP #1
07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
- All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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    *HUGE HUGS* Jenn. I hate that you're back.I wish I could take away your hurt and sadness. I'll be thinking about you today as you go in for your d&c. 

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
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    I hate, HATE that you are having to come back but welcome. (((((HUGE HUGS)))))
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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    Jenn, there are no words that can express how sorry I am that you have to go through this again. Many, many (((hugs)))

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    I'm so sorry. ((more hugs)) I hope your D&C went ok, physically. <3

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + Cytotec.
    Operative hysteroscopy to remove septum 9/18/13.
    BFP #3 12/24/13. Natural m/c 1/17/14.
    BFP #4 3/20/14. Natural m/c 4/3/14.

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    I'm so sorry. ((more hugs)) I hope your D&C went ok, physically. <3
    @RedTwizzlers, the D&C did go okay. We got the hospital at noon and they tried getting an IV in me. But my veins were pretty much non-existent by this point so it took them a few tries. At least they did eventually get it in. They were also nice and put us in our own room. Sort of. The staff fridge was in there so it sucked when everyone kept coming and getting their lunches and I could smell the food.

    I went in for surgery shortly after 5 and woke up in the first recovery room around 6:30. I didn't wake up from the anesthetic well though. I was crying and thrashing and hyperventilating. It sucked. They gave me percocet for the pain and I was sent home around 8. And then I finally got to eat! :)

    So overall, it went well. But emotionally, it totally sucked. Thanks for asking.
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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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    @jenn0021, I'm glad to hear it went ok physically. I've never had a D&C but I know these things are always incredibly difficult emotionally. At least it sounds like they took good care of you.

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + Cytotec.
    Operative hysteroscopy to remove septum 9/18/13.
    BFP #3 12/24/13. Natural m/c 1/17/14.
    BFP #4 3/20/14. Natural m/c 4/3/14.

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    Formerly known as MrsE07
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    @jenn0021 I am so sorry that you had to go through this again.  I know what you mean about coming out of the anesthesia. Every time I do, I cry like a baby. Especially the times for my D&C, I would be so upset, sobbing and everything. It is such a hard thing to go through. I hope you are able to get some rest.  ((Hugs))


    BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C.
    BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18
    BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07
    BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.

    BFP#5 11/9/13.  EDD 7/21/14  Our beautiful rainbow born on his due date!!

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    ((Hugs)) So sorry, love.
    TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

    BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
     BFP #3
    2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

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