Talk me down. Please...

nancy30005

I can't even begin to tell y'all my frustration with DH.

He's never home before 7:00. He is a sweet man and father. He also thinks he knows best. 

I think my kid should have a small party w/ his friends at our house. He thinks its incredulous. 15 peeps at most. 
I'm not trying to break the bank with this shit....Are dudes just like this? 

He's never done this. Always been supportive...IDK. Tell me to 'go to bed already'.

He also travels a lot for work. I tend to get emotional during my cycle. 

Sorry for the details, guys.

Spapeggy

Wine may be the answer, and talk at a later time when your both happy and not hormonal

wiggyslilsis

I am confused with what you are upset about but I agree that sitting down and talking when less emotional is probably a good idea.

MrsT0514

I agree that wine may help for now. Also, it seems like you have several things swirling around your brain all at once. Its probably best if you take a bit to sort out your thoughts and then sit and talk with YH when you're both calm and collected.

Eta..stupid fucking.mobile spelling

EMOmamma

Not sure I understand your question but here's a hug for you (())

LoveActually4

Quick, name 5 things you absolutely love about him!

nancy30005

mamaREB29 said:

Quick, name 5 things you absolutely love about him!

Um...

1. He "gets" me

2. He is hot. Cock is PERFECT,
3. He is a great Daddy

4. He always "thinks" what I cook is awesome.

5. We bonded over music, politics, and he lets me sleep in sometimes. 

Holy crap. You're so right. Thanks, babe!!  I needed to write this out...
I LOVE my Bumpies. 

nancy30005

SunnyDays26 said:

It sounds like you have multiple frustrations coming out at once. You said he's never home before 7:00, so you are dealing with a child all day, with no break. That's hard. You brought up the bday party and said it would be at home, not a ton of money. That sounds like a sit down talk. Decide on a budget and stick to it. Most importantly, get a break soon. It sounds like you are over stressed and DH isn't around a ton because of work. Do you have family int area? Someone who could watch the kid(s)? I would take a breather then sit down and decide on a budget and plan for the bday party. It just sounds like everyone is stressed. Understandable, but sucky.

Thanks, bebe. No, We're in GA and our families are in TX and NC. I agree with what youre saying, tho....I feel guilty. I hate having  ZERO income (on my own). I've never experienced it.