I went to see my family doctor today and she was feeling my uterus with her hands. She didn't use a tape measurer, but based on my belly button, she says I'm only measuring 20 weeks (I am actually 25 weeks). She is worried the baby isn't growing properly and referred me to book an ultrasound right away. In tears and panic, I begged my midwife to let me come in to see them. They measured me and the measurement they got (with an actual tape measurer) was a bit better, but still not where it should be. I have been trying to feel for the top of my uterus and can't really feel it or know what I'm feeling for. I've been crying for 2 hours and I'm so worried. If the top of my uterus really is still at the belly button level, does that mean only 20 weeks? Or could the length of my torso play a role in this? Have any of you had experience with the fundal length being too short/small? 4-5 cms off just seems like much too much. I have an ultrasound tomorrow to check for growth, but I am driving myself crazy with worry and would appreciate anyone's insight. Thank you in advance.
Re: Too small fundal height?
I am sorry you are going through this. Please take your hands out of your vagina though! There is NO way for you to know what is going on in there and there is definitely no way for us to know. The only way to really know growth is to get an ultrasound. You are going to have to wait it out until tomorrow. Did you have an A/S?? If the baby looked on target at 20 weeks, I don't see why at 25 weeks it would be showing 20 weeks. Try to stay calm and rest up until your appointment. Good luck.
eta: I read this wrong. I thought you were putting your hands in your vag. Now rereading it, I think I read it wrong. Either way, stop measuring and trying to do it yourself. Ultrasounds are always 100x more accurate.
Also how many cms was you? I will compare to my notes cos my midwife says baby is growing well
ETA: duh, you said it's tomorrow.
Try to stay calm and hold out for the actual ultrasound! Sending positive vibes that all is well!
Yea I edited it right away. My son is talking in my ear nonstop. My bad.
I still think ultrasounds are much more accurate. What I was trying to ask was the baby showing normally at your A/S because that would have only been about 5 weeks ago.
eta: Sorry if I came off snarky because I really didn't mean to. Just trying to look at the positive of it if you were measuring good a few weeks ago. I really do wish you a lot of luck.
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