So my daughter will be three in November. She has been receiving private speech therapy for 10 months now and she has both oral/verbal apraxia.
She has had two EI evaluations. The first was right before her second birthday and we were not eligible for services because she had over 10 words. (She had 14. Giant difference, right?) Six months later she had another evaluation and did qualify for services. However, we still weren't eligible to receive them because we were getting private services. They pretty much word for word said "Yes, she is delayed and behind. However, we can't help you because it would be a duplication of services." They would have made us stop private services and we would have only seen them once every other week. They said they would help us with school district transition though.
Well, fast forward a few months. Apparently everything they told me is wrong. We should have been eligible for both the whole time. I know EI is stretched thin and we wouldn't have gotten much, but they were supposed to offer us services regardless of our private therapy. Because we didn't receive their services, EI actually won't help us with the transition. Not only that, the school district won't offer any evaluations until her third birthday. So, the whole being eligible for services on your third birthday apparently just means you can start the process right at three if you didn't go through EI?
I'm confused. Now, the school district has been very nice. They have answered my emails right away and have explained all of our options very well. The lead SLP will be going to her boss to see what other options we might have since we were eligible for EI. She said she was confused on why we were told what we were and is going to stay in touch with me. She also said from what I described we should be eligible for a twice a week speech only preschool class along with pull out services at our elementary school. Basically, 3-4 days of therapy. So, I'm pleased with that. I just thought that we should be able to start the process now no matter what so services can officially start in November?
I could write a whole different post on how irritated I am with EI. Oh my goodness.
Re: Does this seem right? (School district related)
Thanks. I guess I am just confused. I thought that we had a right to actually start services on her 3rd birthday if we do indeed qualify. Instead we don't get to start the qualifying process until after her birthday all because EI didn't provide services when they should have. Based upon what the lead SLP told me on the phone after the initial intake we will qualify . They will also accept the apraxia diagnosis from our private SLP. I mean, she is only understandable to me and my DH, and even then we often have no clue as to what she is saying. She speaks in vowels and has no pragmatic language yet. There is educational need.
So far I am very pleased with school district. They have been prompt in responding to my questions and have explained things very nicely. My contact did say our situation is unique and she pretty much berated EI. (EI has a horrible reputation in my area. Horrible.) She's going to her boss to see what they can do push us through sooner, but I don't know how much luck she'll have. My question was really just if that was legitimate--that if you didn't go through EI then you can't receive an evaluation through the school district until the 3rd birthday. That goes against what I have read online so I was just curious.
I have no idea. At this point it seems pretty unnecessary since we are still getting private services.
Since he was 3 at his eval, his speech was no longer considered age appropriate. So I don't find that piece of it unusual. He started preschool (peer) and speech at 3 years 4 months.
My oldest son was in EI since he was born for speech (birth defect) and EI did help transition to the town 3 months before his 3rd bday. But he could not start until his 3rd bday. He just had private and group speech but not classroom.