@@@Waiting to O - Wednesday Edition@@@

teresaide

Cycle/Month: 4/almost 7
CD: 50
What are you doing? OPKs, temping, acupuncture + Chinese herbal medicines, tons of vitamin C, prenatal vitamins, trying to fit in lots of sexy time.
Thoughts/Rants/Questions/Chart Stalks?: Last night I got this cycle's SIXTH positive OPK. Praying, praying, praying for a temp rise tomorrow. Oh please, oh please! Feeling impatient and hopeful, but still can't help feeling frustrated. My doc prescribed clomid (which my DH calls 'cumin' - haha!) and I'll start that whole process next month if I don't get a BFP this month. Fingers crossed we don't have to use it.

GTKY: Ideally, how many children would you like to have? I want two. DH wants one. But first things first!

howljenkins

Can I just whine for a minute?  

So, with my temp drop this morning I suspected I might O today.  So I wanted to make sure to have sex this morning/afternoon before MH had to go back to work.  Well, he fell asleep and I had to leave so it didn't happen.  We both got home early today, though, so I wasn't worried.  I had O pains around lunch time, so I'm even more confident that I wasn't just reading too much in to the temp.  But yeah.  So I get home and he's on his computer.  We watch a few videos, talk for a bit, everything is going great.  Well, as soon as I bring up sex he starts telling me how he feels bad and he thinks he's sick.  I'm okay with that.  I totally understand.  But as soon as I tell him it's fine and we can wait until he feels better he goes back to laughing and playing games and acting completely normal.  

He doesn't have much of a sex drive, so I try not to hold it against him.  But I just want to scream!  We've had several long talks about TTC and I know he's on board.  I just feel like he's making excuses and I don't know what to do.  

This is probably worded poorly because I'm upset/sad because I feel like I'm never going to get pregnant since he so rarely wants to have sex.   I know we haven't been actively trying very long, but we were NTNP since fall of '11.  It's just frustrating and I really want sex!

howljenkins

ozma23 said:

Cycle/ Month: 5/7

CD: 22

What are you doing? stuck in the hospital on what i think is O day! PNVs, green tea, preseed, temps, CM/ cp

Thoughts/Rants/Questions/Chart Stalks?: so I came in to do a minor procedure and have to stay a couple of days and its fucking O day I think so I'm annoyed.  but we did hit -1, -2, -4, -5 with preseed so hopefully that still gives me a chance (all assuming that this is O day, positive OPK yesterday). 

GTKY: Ideally, how many children would you like to have? DH and I are both only children so I'd def like to have two but we will see, one is all I'm trying for right now!

@ozma23 That really sucks you're stuck in the hospital!  But you had great timing, so that's good.  Hope everything is okay!

dsp2013

Cycle/ Month: 1/1

CD:15

What are you doing? OPK's, mucinex, lots of water, HIO ED

Thoughts/Rants/Questions/Chart Stalks?: Positive OPK this morning, so our timing looks to be pretty good so far.

GTKY: Ideally, how many children would you like to have? Both H and I agree 2 is a good number.  He's a twin and has an incredible bond with his brother, and I'm the oldest of 4.  We both think that a sibling for our children is a must.

Lomcmuffin

Cycle/ Month: 1/1

CD: 28

What are you doing? Opk's, as much sex my DH will give me (he has a very labour intense job so he is often too tired during the week). Increasing the amount of water, temping, cf, cp

Thoughts/Rants/Questions/Chart: I have been getting double lines on my opk's since cd 10, but they aren't getting darker. I'm finally getting more cf. so I hope I'm gearing up to "O".

GTKY: Ideally, how many children would you like to have? 2

coopsbaby

Cycle/ Month: 13/11

CD: 3

What are you doing?not sure if we'll do more than temping this month, we'll see

Thoughts/Rants/Questions/Chart Stalks?: nope

GTKY: Ideally, how many children would you like to have? Well, I'm obviously crazy, and I'd love 6 all together. I have 3 older kids from my first marriage, and it was just so great having three, and dh and I would love to have three together. But we'll be happy with what we get!

howljenkins

ozma23 said:

@avery81 thanks! ugh I know, as soon as I got the date my first thought was 'Watch, I'm gonna ovulate then!" I. hoping it was today just so all that sex counts towards fertile days! I read yours, sorry your H isn't up to sex. Do you think he's worried about TTC and nit saying anything? or does he notknow you are possibly Oing?

He's the one that wanted to start actively trying.  And then after my loss a few months back, he's the one that brought up actively trying again instead of waiting a few months.  He knows today is the day.  I've told him.  He's usually on anxiety/depression meds, but has been off of them because of the sexual side effects.  I'm guessing that has something to do with it, but I really have no idea.  It seems like every month we go through this and we talk about it and get no where.  He says he'll try harder next month, but then it still happens.  So I don't know.  I'm not in a huge hurry or anything, though.  So I'm just going to need to deal with it. Thanks.

Neighner20

Cycle/ Month: 1/2

CD:  47, yes you read that right

What are you doing? I have a doctor's appointment scheduled for what would be CD 61 if I don't O or get AF by then.  I'm late for my pap so I needed to go anyways. 

Thoughts/Rants/Questions/Chart Stalks?:  I have never in my life had a cycle this long.  So it figures the first month trying I don't O and it never ends!

GTKY: Ideally, how many children would you like to have?  Two, although 3 isn't out of the question. 

HollyMarie1984

Cycle/ Month: 2

CD: 18

What are you doing? The usual...

Thoughts/Rants/Questions/Chart Stalks?: Ugh I don't know...I am confused. I am so new to all this temping and stuff...I have had two days in a row of eggwhite CM but no +OPK's...does that happen?

GTKY: Ideally, how many children would you like to have? I have wanted 3 for as long as I can remember but realistically...it will probably be 2.