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Venting....

DDeblaisoDDeblaiso member
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I know I am super new to this whole blog/discussion but I need to vent...It's so hard when people around you are trying to be supportive but they always say things like..."relax and it will happen"..."stop trying and you'll get pregnant"...."don't think negative"..."what is meant to be, will be". It is what it is I guess...but the truth is I try to stay as positive as I can no matter how many times I'm disappointed.. All smiles here ladies...
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  • briehannahbriehannah member
    i hear ya girl! Those are my biggest pet peeves. I can't stand the "relax and it will happen" comment. I just want to cream at them, and yell "Would you like to tell that to my Dr. with a PHD who has been scratching his brain for nearly a year to try and figure out exactly what my problem is?"
    Me: 33 DH: 32
    TTC naturally since Dec 2011
    TTC ART since Dec 2012

    Dx: Seems to be low progestrone
    Drug Cocktails since Jan 2013
    List of Meds: Letrozole, Ovidrel, & Follistim, Prometrium, Endometrin
    BFP #1: Feb 2013; Lost 7 days later, Chem Preg
    BFP #2: June 2013; Lost 4 days later; Chem Preg
    BFP #3: Sept 2013; 6 wks pg; Miscarraige with DNC in Oct 

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  • amcastordamcastord member

    Yep...those comments are the worst. My favorite is "quit trying so hard, you want it too much". huh...yeah, I do want a baby pretty bad, but too much? People just don't know what to say...I have always tried to tell myself they mean well, they just don't know...

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  • JaneABCJaneABC

    I think the worst is "if you stop trying it will happen".  How are you supposed to stop trying?  You have such a small window every month so of course you are going to make the most of it. 

     

     

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  • twistsandturnsto2twistsandturnsto2 member
    After my last c/p my mil actually told me that "you never know, maybe you will go through all this without it working and then relax and it will happen on it's own" It was all I could do not to go off on her right there! Some people will just never get it.
    Me: 37, DH: 35 :: TCC since 2/11 SA: Perfect! CD3  HSG = Blocked Right Tube
    April- Femara 2.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN   May- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN
    June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN  August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes
    September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN  October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
    IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176  c/p @ 4w4d
    FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN
    IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
    FET #2 Cancelled, Right Tube Developed a Hydro  8/28 Hydro & Scar Tissue Removed  Cleared for FET
    FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th
    2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th
    2015- 2 failed FET. We are done
    SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16   EDD 4/1/17

     
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  • DDeblaisoDDeblaiso member
    Women who deal with infertility are the strongest women I know
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