My husband and I have been married for 6 months but we have been together for 3 years. I was very upfront with him from the get- go and told him that I had my children earlier in life and had my tubes tied 12 yrs ago. He was ok with that and we moved forward. Now he has baby fever and wants to conceive and I can't so that kind of hurts that I can't fullfill his wish to give him a child. I try to not take it personal and tell him that we can practice baby-making if he wants because that's the fun part. We just hold each other tight. Both of us keep dreaming of babies in our sleep too. It is not his fault or mine ; just feeling a little left out.