I'm so sorry to intrude on your community here ladies, but if you're able to offer me any advice, I would really appreciate it.
My very best friend lost her baby at 20 weeks last year. We live across the country from each other, so I can not go see her in person. The 1-year date is approaching, and I would like to commemorate/acknowledge it both as her baby's day of birth and of the day of her loss. Does that make sense? We chat often, and I send her a special "thinking of you" note on the month-marks, but I wasn't sure what I could do for the 1-year.
Again, thank you and I'm so sorry for all of your losses.