I feel so annoyed with DH and don't like feeling this way. It's mostly things about helping sround the house, not leaving clutter and dishes around, and taking care of himself - not eating crap, staying up too late. I just feel like every time he moves a muscle I'm ready to criticize him and I hate that.
I do think some of my issues are legit, like him leaving his work stuff out where it not only looks messy but is in DD's reach and could easily get messed up, but I need a way to filter and affectively address things but let stuff that doesn't matter go.
Re: Why so annoyed?
I have my moments too and I sound like a nag. None of those comments make my DH want to change, so they're pointless. I also get annoyed with DH's fast food habits. Since Friday, McD 3x and Dominos last night. Ugh! And he tends to stay up late and I have to get up with DD at 5am-6am. I'd like to have more time to unwind in the evenings too, but I pass out because I'm so tired.
I guess I don't really have advice. I can relate though.