I was invited to my SIL's baby shower next month. I actually legitimately can't attend, I will be out of town for work with DH.
Long story short, DH and I do not get along at all with SIL. She's still harboring bad feelings about our weddings being five months apart, and now our LO's are due two months apart. SIL cried when she found out we were expecting and DH's mother was upset we didn't tell her we were planning, never congratulated us. I wouldn't want to go as his mother and sisters are generally offended by my presence, but I know they will be highly offended I'm not attending the shower. The RSVP is to email SIL's best-friend, who I've only met once but seemed nice. I keep trying to write an email declining, but every time I start writing, I over-think it being taken the wrong way. I don't have the best-friend's number or I would call.
Any thoughts on an appropriate baby shower decline email?
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J14's January Signature Challenge: Favorite Post-Delivery Indulgence
Our little Princess is due 1.29.14
Re: declining a baby shower invitation
DS conceived NTNP; born 1/8/14
TTC 5/15
TI w/Clomid 12/16, 1/17, 2/17
OB ordered SA 2/17 and referred to RE for MFI - Low Count/Motility
DH Varicocele repair 6/17.
9/17 SA: count improved
TI w/Letrozole 9/17, 10/17
IUI#1 11/17 BFN
IUI#2 Christmas day Canceled due to low count/poor sample
IVF#1 w/ICSI: 3/18 BCP, Lupron down reg, Follistim 300IU, LDHCG 10units, Lupron 5units, Ovidrel trigger on 3/18. ER 3/21
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BFP #1 (letrozole 2.5mg + ovidrel) February 2016, MMC April 2016 @ 7 weeks
BFP #2 (letrozole 5mg + ovidrel) July 2016, Beta #1 359, Beta #2 745, Beta #3 11484
EDD April 9th, 2017
Yup this.
J14's January Signature Challenge: Favorite Post-Delivery Indulgence