We've been doing baby led weaning and DD eats like a champ. My mom of course is freaking out that DD will never have proper table manners because she eats with her hands and isn't spoon fed. She keeps telling me I need to spoon feed her purees. I tried to explain to her that even if we had started out with purees, DD is now at the age (almost 10months) where we would be transitioning to table food and would be feeding herself anyways. My mom, however, claims that she never let me and my sister eat with our hands, that she always spoon fed us until could do it ourselves. So I'm curious for those who didn't do BLW and whose LO eat table food, do you let them eat with their hands and feed themselves or are you still spoon feeding chunks of food?