Secondary IF

IVF Cycle #1: Cancelled

Awesome. I don't even understand why despite the numerous questions I had for the nurse who broke the news. Apparently, after 2 weeks on BCP, a) I started my period too late, b) my lining was still too thick (?!?!?!), and c) I had fluid in my uterus. 

I never got a clear explanation as to why the cycle was cancelled but whatever. So I start BCP next week again. 

Does this get easier? Please? someone tell me this gets easier. 

Re: IVF Cycle #1: Cancelled

  • Aww I'm so sorry hon :( ((hugs!))

    With the mega dollars you are paying I would get that darn nurse on the phone and pump her with questions until you are crystal clear on everything and then some (just my opinion)

    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF

  • I'm so so sorry JP... Do you have a new date?  I sure hope it gets easier. I am so sorry.  I wish I could say/do something to make you feel better. ((HUGS))


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  • Trust me, I drilled that nurse and she kept on saying "that's all the info I got from the dr." So I gave up. From what I'm reading though, a baseline u/s last week showed a tiny cyst. I'm assuming the fluid may be because it may have burst. So course of action nothing for a week, let it pass. Next week, I get another u/s and bloodwork, and if all looks ok, I start all over again with 11 days of BCP. 

    Thanks for the good thoughts and hugs. I'm learning that IVF can be SUCH a lonely and scary place to be. 
  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry you're going through this.

    BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C.
    BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18
    BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07
    BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.

    BFP#5 11/9/13.  EDD 7/21/14  Our beautiful rainbow born on his due date!!

  • Ugh! I so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how frustrating this is for you. I hope next cycle is much easier! 

    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 

    BabyFruit Ticker
  • So sorry to hear you were cancelled. I hope your doctor can give you more information soon. For me, I know that in the long run a few weeks won't make too much of a difference, but it seems like such a long time when you are waiting and hoping. Good luck at your next appt!

    DS born Jan 2010

    TTC#2 since Nov 2010 with breaks for DH cancer tx (remission!)

    Tube with hydro removed Feb 2013

    BFP 11/11/13 IUI#2 clomid+trigger+prometrium

    Beta #1 14dpIUI=106; Beta #2 16dpIUI=287; Beta #3 20dpIUI=1158

    5w6d 1 hb 109 and 2nd smaller sac; 7w0d 1 hb 125 and confirmed vanishing twin

    BabyFruit Ticker
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