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Feeling so sad...

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My husband's family came over today and visited for several hours and everyone was sweet and concerned (I had my D&C yesterday), but it was pointed out that in the past 6 months, I spent more time being pregnant than not after 2 losses in a row. It struck a nerve and maybe this is not worth being upset over but it's been an expensive year with medical bills and a roller coaster of emotions all to not have a baby in the end. I think everyone thinks I'd be fine if we just got pregnant again (because "of course it wouldn't happen again!") but I'm still so sad! I can't even think about trying again! I know it's childish but it's not fair!! Just a vent...
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    MommaAshley12MommaAshley12 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. It isn't fair and it really, really sucks. Take care of yourself and allow yourself time to grieve and heal. ((Hugs))
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    EDD 12/27/13
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    Jennyco1124Jennyco1124 member
    I'm so sorry......sending a hug!
    Married 11-24-2001 DD 11-24-2004 DS 09-03-2007 MC #1 at 12 weeks Dec 2012 MC #2 at 9 weeks AUG 2013 (baby girl, trisomy 16)
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    giraffe2112giraffe2112 member
    That was a very insensitive thing to say, I'm so sorry for your losses. (((hugs)))
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