Boy names with a feminine sound

HattieLove

Not pregnant, just browsing.

I tend to like boy names that are starting to be used on girls. This doesn't bother me at all and I'm just looking for some more suggestions. My top two boy names are Rory and Finley. I don't like how popular Finley is becoming, so I'm looking for some new names to add to my list. I also like: Callum, Arden, Stellan, Soren, Silas, and Wesley. 

DD is Ramona. I'm not too picky about them going together, but I did cut Rowan off my list, for example, because it's just too close to Ramona. Last name is french, starts with an L and ends in an "o" sound. 

coopsbaby

I love Rory. How about Julian?

luminousbluestar

I love Silas Finley.

Ladybug32110

Julian
Adrian
Emerson
Casey
Riley
Jordan
Taylor
Kelly
Cory
Colby

mh89

I like Rory. I definitely think Arden is a girls name. I like Silas as well. And I prefer the spelling Caelum over Callum (then he'd be named after a constellation too, which is very cool!).

HattieLove

mh89 said:

I like Rory. I definitely think Arden is a girls name. I like Silas as well. And I prefer the spelling Caelum over Callum (then he'd be named after a constellation too, which is very cool!).

Is Caelum pronounced the same as Callum? Caelum looks like KAI-lum or KAY-lum, and I think of Callum as CAL-um (where the Cal rhymes with pal)

HattieLove

mh89 said:

I like Rory. I definitely think Arden is a girls name. I like Silas as well. And I prefer the spelling Caelum over Callum (then he'd be named after a constellation too, which is very cool!).

I believe Arden was a boy's name first, and is just used for girls in recent years. The hard "Ar" sounds very boy to me.

https://nameberry.com/babyname/Arden

mh89

Oh maybe not. I'm pretty sure it's pronounced Kay-lum, but don't quote me on that. Might need to google research it more.

CarrieB.

I like Avery and Riley better as boys' names.

Manderlin923

Soft boy names I like: Remy, Arlo, Rhys, Aaron, Graeme, Henry, Shane, Jay, Hayden, Kai, Julian, Adrian, Francis, Robin, Sterling, Brighton, Brennan

bobcee

mummyofsix said:

I asked about Finley last week (for a boy) since I was genuinely shocked that people can think its a girls name. And I am not against traditional boys names for girls (I used one myself) but for some reason I just cannot see anything at all about Finley that would make me want to use it on a girl.

Silas, Wesley, Callum are extremely masculine to me.

I think it's important to see the difference between names that used to be traditionally used for one sex and are now more evenly spread out, like Taylor, Avery, Emerson, Reese and then just giving your daughter a name that is still extremely male dominated. You can call your DD Callum Silas if you want (or John Michael or David Edward or whatever) but that's not making them unisex or feminine. It's giving your daughter an extremely masculine name.

Also, I am so glad I am not you right now. This thread is not going to go well for you,

I think most people here will actually be accepting of OP. she's asking about names for a boy not to name a girl. She just tends to like softer boys names for a boy.

OP some other suggestions: Elliot, Ellis, Avery, Parker, Peyton, Julian, Julius, Jonah

emnoahmom

I  have an Asa, which is very soft sounding. If this one is a boy we are going with Jonas. Jonah, Joel, Judah, Rhys, Aaron, Lane, Ellis, Gabriel, Colin, Seth? I think Silas is great too btw!

Everyusernameistaken

I like Reilly for a boy. Micah is a boy name with bit of a softer edge because it ends in an "a" sound.

mrstengallonhat1

I always think of Gabriel or Luca as being softer sounding boys' names.  Love them both btw!

Linnea503

I love Ezra for a boy, of course the "a" makes it a little feminine. I also like Shea/Shay, although I'm not really sure which spelling for a boy is best.

HattieLove

I asked about Finley last week (for a boy) since I was genuinely shocked that people can think its a girls name. And I am not against traditional boys names for girls (I used one myself) but for some reason I just cannot see anything at all about Finley that would make me want to use it on a girl. Silas, Wesley, Callum are extremely masculine to me. I think it's important to see the difference between names that used to be traditionally used for one sex and are now more evenly spread out, like Taylor, Avery, Emerson, Reese and then just giving your daughter a name that is still extremely male dominated. You can call your DD Callum Silas if you want (or John Michael or David Edward or whatever) but that's not making them unisex or feminine. It's giving your daughter an extremely masculine name. Also, I am so glad I am not you right now. This thread is not going to go well for you,

I'm looking for boy names that were traditionally used for boys but are now occasionally used for girls, or for boy names that sound kind of soft like Wesley and Silas. 

I'm not putting any of these names on girls, I think you misunderstood. 

HattieLove

I asked about Finley last week (for a boy) since I was genuinely shocked that people can think its a girls name. And I am not against traditional boys names for girls (I used one myself) but for some reason I just cannot see anything at all about Finley that would make me want to use it on a girl. Silas, Wesley, Callum are extremely masculine to me. I think it's important to see the difference between names that used to be traditionally used for one sex and are now more evenly spread out, like Taylor, Avery, Emerson, Reese and then just giving your daughter a name that is still extremely male dominated. You can call your DD Callum Silas if you want (or John Michael or David Edward or whatever) but that's not making them unisex or feminine. It's giving your daughter an extremely masculine name. Also, I am so glad I am not you right now. This thread is not going to go well for you,

I think most people here will actually be accepting of OP. she's asking about names for a boy not to name a girl. She just tends to like softer boys names for a boy. OP some other suggestions: Elliot, Ellis, Avery, Parker, Peyton, Julian, Julius, Jonah

Oh god, this will teach me to bump before coffee. sorry op, I thought you were asking about boys names for girls. Ignore me! Sorry!

Oops, I replied before seeing this additional comment. No worries!

love4b

Ari and Ambrose

missperky

I like the name Loren for a man...yes I said man mainly because the men I know named Loren are very masculine. And it's technically a unisex name anyways so now I'm not sure if it counts as a feminine sounding boy's name. Oh well.

stahlop

I love Avery and Taylor for boys. Also, my DH's mn is Arden so it's all boy to me.

macska3

Manderlin923 said:

Soft boy names I like: Remy, Arlo, Rhys, Aaron, Graeme, Henry, Shane, Jay, Hayden, Kai, Julian, Adrian, Francis, Robin, Sterling, Brighton, Brennan

Ooo! I love Brighton!

Portland1916

We also like softer names for a boy. Our top list includes:
Shiloh
Joshua
Wyeth
Gray

emnoahmom

Maybe Brooks?

Ineedmorecoffee

I really like Avery for a boy.

 

OT but I have a Silas and if we are blessed with a girl she will most likely be Ramona. Love your name taste

HattieLove

Portland1916 said:

We also like softer names for a boy. Our top list includes: Shiloh Joshua Wyeth Gray

I LOVE Shiloh! Unfortunately our last name ends in an "O" sound, so it's much too rhyme-y. I love names that end in "O"/O-sounds though :-( 

HattieLove

Ineedmorecoffee said:

I really like Avery for a boy.

 

OT but I have a Silas and if we are blessed with a girl she will most likely be Ramona. Love your name taste

Thank you! :-)