Our birthmom finds out on Wednesday the gender of the baby. I am sooooo excited! I KNOW this is our last baby, and I would like to do a surprise for my family. But, and this is so silly, I feel like that's not something I should enjoy, a gender reveal (in a fun way). Do you think it's ok to enjoy this moment and make it fun? I don't know why I'm feeling like I shouldn't. (I'm very confident this adoption is going to go through, so I don't think it's that).