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PgAL Check In

Welcome to PGAL CheckIn!

I hope I find you all well and positive this week! If you have any questions you would like answered, please don't be shy! You can also ask the PAL ladies. Grow little ones, grow!

How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?

Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?

QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?

Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?

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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week? 18w5d.

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? Routine OB on Tuesday, then things should slow down for us [I think] in terms of appointments.

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same? My husband is stationed in Colorado, so I haven't had sex since May. Which sucks. But first tri, I had NO sex drive, so I doubt we would've had sex anyway. Now that I'm in second tri and feeling better, I've told H that he'll get very lucky when he comes home in a few weeks for a visit. :)

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? I keep thinking back to this time last year, when we had buried Devon [well, had him cremated], and I was trying to pick up the pieces of my life. It's amazing how much has changed, how far I've come, but yet how much I still miss him. I feel better about baby now that my a/s is done, but I'm still a big ball of nerves. I wish I could relax.
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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week? 4wks 5 days - poppy seed

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? got my 1st docs apt this afternoon, where she will be referring me for an early scan (hopefully at 6-7 weeks)

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same? Well, we only found out yesterday so none yet.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? DH and I are currently in the process of buying a house, so we're a little stressed with that right now.

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    09/23/11 - Married DH

    04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks

    05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d

    08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d

    09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!  

    10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!

    12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!

    05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!

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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?  7w0d/blueberry

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? still waiting on my first appt. sept. 12.  I have decided that if they don't check for the heartbeat at that appointment I am going to buy a doppler bc I just can't wait that long to find out if there is a heartbeat.

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has you sex drive increased,decreased, or stayed about the same?  I have been so exhausted and have no interest right now so we haven't since we found out we were pregnant.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?  Every since I found these christmas ornaments on etsy that are a cloud that says 1st christmas in the clouds, I have been so sad thinking about going through our first Christmas without her.

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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?
    12w6d and baby is plum.

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?
    Next appt is the 11th, nothing really significant happening between now and then.

    QOTW: How often do you DTD while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?
    Well it's definitely decreases from when we were ttc. After we found out I was feeling pretty bad and exhausted all the time so it definitely dropped. But these last few weeks I have been feeling a lot better so frequency has picked up.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
    I keep thinking about a cerclage and if I should just get one or do the monitor and see approach. It's so stressful. I plan to discuss it in depth with my dr at the next appt.

    Married 11/23/11, TTC starting 10/12, BFP#1 11/30/12, Adoption of stepson finalized 03/19/13,Loss of our daughter at 20w4d due to incompetent cervix 03/27/13, BFP#2 06/28/13, DS2 born 3/1/14.

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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?  11 weeks 2 days, a lime
     
    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?  My NT scan is sep 10th and I get my cerclage in on Sep 19

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?  We haven't done anything since we conceived.  I was on pelvic rest for the few 10 weeks, and since we've been cleared I just haven't been comfortable enough to try.  Though since I got pregnant, my drive has definitely increased.  I would like to try before my cerclage gets puts in though, since after that I'll likely be on pelvic rest again.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?  I started trying with my home doppler waaaay too early, and now I am getting paranoid a little bit.  Maybe not so much about finding the HB, but for whatever reason I feel like I am hurting the baby with the doppler.  Probably because there have been a lot of posts about this on my BMB.  I also worry about how much pop I've been drinking....I doubt there has been any day that I've come close to the 200 mg of caffeine that you're allowed, but I should give it up completely...basically I worry that everything I do is hurting the baby.

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     My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks.  Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!

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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week? 18wks 5days. He's a sweet potato

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?  No appts until Sept 9th. 

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?  At first SO and I were like little bunnies this was before the 1st trimester symptoms set in. Once I started feeling better we went back to our frisky ways but every time we do it I spot afterwards, which my brain cannot handle. So I am on self-imposed pelvic rest. Maybe we'll resume closer to my EDD but not right now. 

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? This week I've had several breakdowns missing my Scottie. I think the recent flutters of this new baby has put me in a nerve wracking place. Although this time everything looks "normal" we all know how life changes in a blink of an eye. And this week I'm just scared... all the time. 
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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?
    11 week 3day. Lime

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?
    On Tuesday I see my dr and hopefully get my scan and blood work done that day.

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?
    Not often enough, I'm so tired and so sick at night!

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
    Scarred for Tuesday. Missing Arianna a lot lately.

    Julius Justin - 11/07/2002 - 10 lbs 22 in 
    Isabella Genavieve - 02/03/05 - 7 lbs 11 oz 22 in 
    Arianna Kaitlynn - 04/10/2013 - 4 lbs 15 oz 15 in

    BFP 08/10/13 
    TWINS!!!! 09/01/13
    Miscarriage at 12 weeks lost baby B 
    Arianna diagnosed with an Ompalocele at 13 weeks
    Arianna our Angel on 04/10/13 
    BFP 07/20/13
    Our Rainbow due 03/18/14 


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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?
    7w 1d
    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?
    First appt on the 9th....trying to be patient
    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?
    Ummm, about the same, I guess, maybe a little less...
    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
    It's been a stressful, long week.  Every time I let myself think about the baby and start to get excited and plan for the next year, I get very guilty and sad.  I'm having a difficult time dealing with these mixed emotions - especially since I haven't seen the OB yet...
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  • kikibellekikibelle member
    edited August 2013
    How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week? 
    26 weeks tomorrow-not sure what fruit

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? 
    Monthly checkup on Tuesday

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same? 
    We DTD once or twice a week. My sex drive didn't increase that much during the 2nd tri, sadly. Now that I'm at the end of the 2nd tri, the belly's starting to make things awkward. DH and I have already discussed how little sex we'll have during the 3rd tri, lol. We know from experience that it's often not worth the effort once I'm huge.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
    The past month has flown by, mostly because work has been so busy. I've started to let myself daydream and plan a little for this baby, and I've even had some urges to start organizing things in the nursery, but I'm not quite to the point where I feel comfortable actually doing it. I don't think I'll get there for a while. I did finally contact a doula. She was our back-up doula last year, and she wrote the sweetest card to us after she found out that Julian was stillborn. I think it might be nice to have her as our support this time.

    ETA: Formatting, and hey, my PGAL badge is gone : (
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  • Okay, so I was wrong. I just needed to wait another day or two to test!

    How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?

    3wks6days?? Poppyseed??

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?

    I will call my OB/GYN on Tuesday. She will probably send me for blood work and (hopefully) an early ultrasound.

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?

    Stayed the same with both previous pregnancies. We shall see if it does this time too.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?

    I honestly can't believe that I got a BFP. I don't feel Pg. AT ALL! Kind of nervous about that....

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  • Mrs Nice said:

    Okay, so I was wrong. I just needed to wait another day or two to test!

    How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week?

    3wks6days?? Poppyseed??

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?

    I will call my OB/GYN on Tuesday. She will probably send me for blood work and (hopefully) an early ultrasound.

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same?

    Stayed the same with both previous pregnancies. We shall see if it does this time too.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?

    I honestly can't believe that I got a BFP. I don't feel Pg. AT ALL! Kind of nervous about that....

    Omg! Congrats, so happy to see this!!! What a difference a day makes. Stay hopeful, almost 4 weeks is really soon to start feeling pregnant, but I know what you mean. Hugs.
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    BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011 
    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
  • ~ Leah, Rachel and Gabriel were born on May 27, 2013 (23 weeks) ~ Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Congrats @ mrs nice!!!

    Julius Justin - 11/07/2002 - 10 lbs 22 in 
    Isabella Genavieve - 02/03/05 - 7 lbs 11 oz 22 in 
    Arianna Kaitlynn - 04/10/2013 - 4 lbs 15 oz 15 in

    BFP 08/10/13 
    TWINS!!!! 09/01/13
    Miscarriage at 12 weeks lost baby B 
    Arianna diagnosed with an Ompalocele at 13 weeks
    Arianna our Angel on 04/10/13 
    BFP 07/20/13
    Our Rainbow due 03/18/14 


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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week? 15 weeks. 

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? End of Sept is my a/s.

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same? Decreased in second tri, but its picking up steam.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Trying to get everything settled on our house. The bank is holding us up...grrr.
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  • How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week? 
    26 weeks today. Apparently a lettuce head.
    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? 
    Quick appointment tomorrow, then on the 17th we do the GTT and growth scan
    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same? 
    This is a superstition for us. We lost Patricia to a cord accident, and during that pregnancy we had alot of sex. DH irrationally worries now that having sex will cause a problem, so we really dont.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
    Worried about my weight gain. My BP is good, swelling is slight, but I gained 4 lbs last week and 3 lbs this week, and I'm only up 14lbs total, so I'm seriously trying not to stress about half of my weight gain coming in these past two weeks
    Mommy to Patricia Catherine, born still at 22w6d, 8/2/12. Mommy and Daddy will love and miss you forever baby girl!

    Bonus Mommy to I (16), A (15) and O (12)

    Furbaby Mommy to Athena, a English Mastiff

    BFP: 3/27/13, We are cautiously expecting baby #2 on 12/9/13 :) Please be our rainbow little one!

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  • Thank you ladies!! It's so wonderful to have such amazing support!! <3

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  • Mrs Nice said:

    Thank you ladies!! It's so wonderful to have such amazing support!! <3</p>

    Yay! This is so exciting! Congratulations!!!
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  • Welcome to PGAL CheckIn! 
    How far along are you? What size fruit is your baby this week? 4w 2d, poppy seed

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? 
    Just got the results of my quantitative HCG back. Day 15= 756!! That's 3 times what it was when I was pg with the twins last time so I'm nervous that we have multiples again.

    QOTW: How often do you TDT while PgAL? Has your sex drive increased, decreased, or stayed about the same? We usually DTD 3-4 times a week.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Just really nervous about the possibility of twins again.  I kind of want it, but at the same time its scary I want a better outcome this time.
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