A little back ground DS has been at the same daycare center since he has been 12 weeks old. He move to the 4 yo room in June. He typically has some troubles when he transfers to a new room for the first 3 months until his the rest of his friends move up.
Well over the last month DS has been really physically aggressive to a lot of different friends from pulling hair to kicking pushing and hitting. The last 3 weeks he has been earning his weekend activities if he good he gets an activity if he is bad he looses the planned activity. The last 2 weekends he missed out on birthday parties. This week he earned one activity but was really aggressive today so did not earn his visit with his BFF even though he was perfect yesterday.
He is great at home we haven't seem any physical aggression at all. His teachers say it occurs during down time or free play. It's not just one friend but multiple friends he has been aggressive with. When we ask him why he does it what happens before he says nothing has happened and he just wanted to kick or hit.
I am at a loss. I just feel horrible I don't know what to do it seems to be getting worse. He has also had a cold and hasn't been napping great at all. However the behaviors can occur in the morning or afternoon. Please help. TIA!