Just curious for working moms - Do you stay home with your little when they are sick, does your spouse, do you alternate? My 14 MO was sick last night and today, I decided to take her to the Dr. (small viral infection, nothing to worry about) but when it came to the realization this morning (the oh sh*t, she isn't better and cant go to daycare) my H was like OK, well you guys have a good day see ya!
He didnt even expect a discussion about it, he just assumed I would be the one calling in, no big deal...this is a problem. We both make the exact same amount of $, I have been at my job for 7 months and LO has had to stay home sick from daycare three times and it has been me every single time. Not to mention I take and pick up every single day. H works in surrounding towns doing construction so he is rarely around daycare area come 5 pm but I feel like he needs to be putting in more of an effort. He already knows we are having a discussion about this later tonight so I WILL be addressing him also but I was just curious...
Who stays home with the sick kid in your guys household? Also curious to know your drop off/pick up schedules for daycare! Thanks for letting me vent.
Re: Who stays home when your LO is sick?
Married DH 7/30/11
CSC arrived 5/7/12
CHC arrived 6/2/14
We alternate so that neither one of us are out too much unless one of us has something big going on and absolutely can't get off. Basically we try to do it so we inconvenience both our jobs the least amount.
And by the way, I make 2x what he does. It doesn't matter who makes more. We both need our jobs!
You deff. need to talk to your DH; it's time for an attitude adjustment!
And second, because every time my DH is home alone with the baby, my cow of a MIL ends up popping over. She's welcome to visit on weekends and such, but she'd rather avoid me. And I'd rather be there to supervise. (The woman once told me that DD doesn't really have life-threatening food allergies, I just need to stop breastfeeding and then she'll grow out of it. :-O)
Polyp removed/hypothyriod 6/2011
7/2011 IUI#1 w/ 150 Follistim/Ovidrel trigger BFN
8/2011 IUI#2 w/225 Follistim/Ovidrel trigger BFN
10/2011 IUI#3 w/300 Follistim/Ovidrel trigger (BFP)
beta #1: 195 beta#2: 502
7/2013 Back to RE because my uterus is OLD
TL;DR: He'll do it but it's just easier if I do.
My husband would probably expect it would be me because I have a more flexible job (and nicer boss) - but anytime I've had to ask him if he could do it or if he could split the day, it's never been an issue.
ETA - I do daycare drop off and pick up - again because of my schedule and I work (at home) very near daycare - but he can almost always pick up or drop off if I have a scheduling conflict.
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This. My work is very deadline orientated. So I take the days that are not important in my deadline and if they are my hubby stays home.