Intro to Secondary IF, its been over a year for us. Time to say hello

Mishelle62

Hi Everyone,

I feel like its time for me to intro here and hopefully feel more connected to people that understand what I have been going thru.  DH and I have a beautiful almost 3 year old boy and have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now.  First DS was easy, got pregnant on the 3^rd month and had a super easy pregnancy.  This time is the complete opposite.  I got my first BFP at 6 months, ended in chemical pregnancy.  Second BFP at 8 months, another chemical pregnancy.  Third BFP at 11 months, blighted ovum that was a trisomy pregnancy, (can’t remember the # but it was the most common one my RE sees). 

I’ve had some testing done, they didn’t find anything wrong.  I am going to a new RE in two weeks and am asking for a full workup.  Secondary IF is painful and I don’t think that many people in my family or friends really understand.  They assume I will get and stay pregnant eventually and that I need to stay positive.  It’s hard sometimes though.  Do any of you have a similar story?  Thanks for reading

freakyfast

Hi there.  Welcome. Sorry you have to be here.  So so sorry to hear about your losses. Hopefully your stay here is short.