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Saying Good Bye lost them at 16 weeks

BANBIE18BANBIE18 member
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My water broke 4 days ago and i didnt noticed.... Baby A is gone and baby B and myself are at risk of infection doctors cant seem to find a way to save him. We can both die. husband and doctors said mommy first but i dont care about me i wish i could save him! Two natural twin pregnancies two loses i lost my babies girl and boy.... I am devastated i feel my world has collapsed. I thank you all for all the love and support for all the advice and wish you the best with all your pregnancies.... Good bye i cant believe i am writing this i cant believe i lost them
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  • bitsytripmombitsytripmom member
    My thoughts and prayers are with you during this terrible time. I am so sorry for your losses.
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  • babywillmake3babywillmake3 member
    Prayers, I can't even imagine how you feel. I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry for your losses. (HUG)

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  • MrsCali_BrideMrsCali_Bride member
    I am so sorry for your losses.
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  • Stephanie2167Stephanie2167 member
    I am so so sorry for your losses ((((hugs))))


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  • Mrs.AshAshMrs.AshAsh member
    What a heartbreaking post. Im so very sorry for your losses. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
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  • CaliCarly77CaliCarly77 member
    Aw :( I am so so sad to read this. I am so sorry for your loss, and wish you and your family strength through this difficult time. 
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    Josie and Lexie were born on January 4, 2014 at 37w2d
    Josie was 5lbs2oz, Lexie was 4lbs15oz 
    Both had a 9 APGAR score with no NICU time
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  • PurrCrasherPurrCrasher member
    How devastating. I am so sorry for your losses.
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  • aliwisewomanaliwisewoman member
    I'm sorry banbie18. So sorry for your loss.
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  • 10-4LilBuddy10-4LilBuddy member
    I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.
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  • JoDocJoDoc member
    My heart goes out to you!  I pray that you somehow find strength through this incredibly difficult time.  *Hugs*

     

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  • sparkman-to-besparkman-to-be member
    My heart breaks for you. I'm so very sorry to hear of your losses. 
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  • LucyRicardo3LucyRicardo3 member
    Heartbroken to read this.. I'm so very sorry. Prayers for you and your family.

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  • Mrs.GuzMrs.Guz member
    Heartbroken. I'm so sorry. Hugs and prayers for you!
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  • KaloramaKBKaloramaKB member
    Words can't even express how sorry I am to hear this. Sending lots and lots of positive thoughts your way.
    BFP #1 on 12/15/11 but missed m/c with d&c on 2/1/12.
    BFP #2 on 5/1/13 = boy/girl TWINS with EDD of 1/3/14 but expected no later than 12/20/13.
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  • raraavis28raraavis28 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. :(
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  • mrsmac08mrsmac08 member
    I am so very sorry. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
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  • jocie2581jocie2581 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • NBA0703NBA0703 member
    I am soooo very sorry : *(  Wish I could reach through the computer to give you a hug
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    TTC SINCE 7/2010, BFP-10/2010 ended in miscarriage 11/2010 : (.....
    Progesterone level 4/2011= 11.29. SA normal. HSG normal.
    8/11 Clomid 50mg=BFN progesterone level 35,
    10/11 Clomid 50mg =BFN progesterone level 31,
    11/11 Clomid 50mg=BFN progesterone level 12,
    12/11 Clomid 50mg=Progesterone 31
    01/12-Break from meds-BFN
    Feb-cd3 blood work FSH(5), AMH(0.56) 02/12 Break....
    03/01/12-Clomid 50mg with IUI #1=BFN.
    04/01/12-Another round of clomid with IUI#2=BFN.
    5/8/12-Diagnostic Laparoscopy-found minimal endometriosis and small fibriod.
    June and July-much needed break
    August-Bravelle 75 with IUI#3- BFN
    September-Bravelle injects with IUI #4-BFP!! MC 10/7/12 : ( Sonohysterogram-Normal
    December- Bravelle(3 good follicles & E2 1252) with IUI#5 BFFN :*(
    July IVF #1- BFP! : )  Beta #1-245, #2- 703, #3- 1655, #4- 3553 YAY!  Praying and Praying this one sticks around!
                      1st U/S scheduled for Aug 23rd!  
    Twins!!
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  • jessican08jessican08 member
    I'm so, so sorry for your losses. Wishing you lots of peace and strength.
    TTC 12/2009
    Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
    IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
    E & C Born 10/19/2012
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  • BANBIE18BANBIE18 member
    Thank u.... I am at a loss for words
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  • JAck5209JAck5209 member
    I'm so sorry for your devastating loss.  T&P's to you and your family.
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  • matthew24matthew24 member
    I am so sorry for your losses. Wishing you all the best during this terrible time.
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  • daisy19782011daisy19782011 member
    There are no words...I am so sorry. I tear up just reading this. I am so sorry for your losses.

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    TTC #1 since 7/2011
    ME: 37  DH: 38
    SA-12/28/11-normal
    HSG-1/16/12-possible blocked left tube
    BFP#1---CP 7/9/12
    Hysteroscopy-8/9/12-blocked left tube for sure, proceeding with IUI#1
    IUI#1 (Gonal-F + trigger)=BFP#2 m/c @ 19w1d D&E 1/23/13
    IUI #2 (Gonal F + trigger)=BFP#3 EDD 1/6/14 TWINS!!!
    Identical girls born 11/17/13
    BFP#4 EDD 8/27/15 MMC at 7w6d

    BFP#5 m/c at 6w

    BFP#6 EDD 10/5/16  Going Strong!  It's a Girl!

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  • PiperSPiperS member
    I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • Mrs. AliceMrs. Alice member
    I'm so sorry for your losses.
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  • jennylryanjennylryan member
    Praying for you and family!! So sorry for your losses!!
    Jenny-34, DH-39, Furdog-Nissa
    TTC#1 since Aug '05, CP: 10/05, 8/12; BO: 1/13;
    IUI #8: BFP, beta 1, 6/4/13: 267, beta 2, 6/6/13: 765; First US 6/18/13-Twins!!!
    Due February 13, 2014 with two BOYS! 
    Henry Leo, 4# 13oz, 18.75 inches and Samuel Thomas, 6#, 18.5 inches arrived via c-section January 30th!  

     
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  • spin25spin25 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • Jfila13Jfila13 member
    Praying for you and your family.
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  • megs2011megs2011 member
    My heart is breaking. So sorry for your losses.

                              

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  • pinkmickey24pinkmickey24 member
    I'm sorry for your losses. My thoughts as prayers are with you and your family.
    ~TTC since July 2010~
    CD3 Bloodwork:Normal 
    HSG-Clear 
    SA:Low Morph 
    IVF with ICSI #1: ER 12/16 (4 ER/3 Mature/0 Fertilized) 
    IVF with ICSI #2: ER 5/17 (4 ER/4 Mature/3 Fertilized)/ET 5/20 (2 embryos transferred)-BFN 
    IVF with PICSI #3: ER 9/8 (11 ER/8 Mature/7 Fertilized)/ET 9/13 (2 AA blastocysts transferred) 
    Beta#1, 9/26/12: 719 Beta#2, 9/28/12: 1,436 Beta#3, 10/1/12: 3,446
    1st u/s on 10/10/12: It's Twins! We found out on 12/16/12 that we were having two BOYS!
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  • JKGymnastJKGymnast member
    So, so sorry! Big hugs.
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  • jennifire7jennifire7 member
    So sorry for your losses, T & P's to you and your family.
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  • zazu13zazu13 member
    There are no words. I'm devastated for you. Take care :(

    Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR 

    IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response

     IVF #2 Nov '11  8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical

    IVF #3 April '12  11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c

    FET #1 Aug 2012  3dt x2 - BFN

    **new RE**

     IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN

     IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie

    9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!

    Twin girls! 3/6/14

     

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  • Cleo421Cleo421 member
    I'm so very sorry. My prayers are with you.
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  • mpetrimpetri member
    I am so sorry For your loss!praying for you!
    Me: 31, DH: 37, TTC #1 since 06/09, dx: Endometriosis diagnosed by Dr during ER
    02/10-low progesterone on 21 day bloodwork (5.2); on hold due to cyst
    04/2010-9/2010 6 failed Clomid cycles with TI (unmonitored)=BFN 4/10 SA= perfect
    8/10-HSG all clear
    9/10-started seeing RE
    10/10-Femara + TI= BFN
    11/2010 through 2/2011 IUI #1-3 Femara + Ovidrel=BFN
    03/2011 through 8/2011 BREAK CYCLES (had 8 babyshower to go to, house remodel, 30th b-day and College Graduation)
    9/2011-Started back to RE, waiting on cycle due to it being late, and work travel had to hold off IUI #4 till 10/2011
    10/2011- IUI #4 on hold due to cyst, 2 weeks BCP
    11/2011- IUI #4 (11-21-2011?) Femara + Follistim + Ovidrel=Converted over to T.I. (NO Trigger) due to too many follicles=BFN
    3 cysts due to follistim cycle
    January 2012=IVF #1 cancelled and converted to IUI #4 due to dominant follicles=BFNN
    IVF 1.2=??? on hold due to cysts, on hold w/o B.C. till they resolve
    br> Aug 2012 IVF 1.2, cyst aspiration 8/7, ER8/16, Dr found Endometriosis in Left tube during ER ER:7, Fert 5, 5DT scheduled 8/21/2012, transfered 2 Blasts, hpt + 8/28/2012, beta 8/31/2012-BFP -21(chemical pregnancy
    IVF #2 October 2012
    ER 10/13/2012, 6R,5M,3F
    10/15/12 ET:3dt 2 embies
    +HPT 6dp 3dt.
    1st beta 10/29/12 Positive 13dp 3dt=654
    2nd Beta: 10/31/2012: 1,836
    3rd beta 11/5/2012 (20dp 3dt:13,655
    1st u/s 11/12/12 TWINS!!! 2nd u/s 11/26/12
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  • SV917SV917 member
    So very sorry for your losses.
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  • jmiller79jmiller79 member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • Kissimi21Kissimi21 member
    I am so very sorry for your losses.

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  • MuseumMavenMuseumMaven member
    I am so, so sorry. Praying for peace and healing.
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  • LottaLattesLottaLattes member
    I am so, so sorry for your losses. Words aren't enough, take good care of yourself ((hugs))
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