Just wow!

NavyWifeTrivette

So every once in a while, I check my stbxh's facebook and twitter pages to see if there is anything I can use against him during the divorce and custody hearing. Today was an interesting find! He posted a bunch of pictures with his latest girlfriend. This makes his third girlfriend since I left him in March. The real kicker, the pictures are of them in a hotel room. I love how he can't send money to support his child that could be here any day now, but he can afford to rent a hotel for him and his girlfriend. It is times like this that I wish I didn't have a restraining order against him so I could call him out, but I know I need to play by the rules in order to maximize my chances in court. I am rather thankful to have an amazing mother who tends to think the same way as I do, and sent him a lovely message calling him out for me. He keeps tangling himself up in lie after lie and I find it so comical. My mom even commented on the picture of him and his gf about him being married with a kid on the way. He keeps trying to turn it around on my mom and I, but little does he know he has screwed himself over in so many ways. I will barely even have to fight in this divorce because he has done all the work for me. No real purpose to this, just venting about his stupidity really.

CoIvie

Lol. Isn't it just A-MAZING the things they buy!! I just posted about my child's father upgrading his BMW to a nicer one and the fact he hasn't really acknowledged he has a kid on the way and has a gf. Lol

I can't stand men

But how is he trying to twist it around on YOU!? There's nothing for him to twist!! You have a kid on the way, take care of it!! You can keep your little girlfriends, just take care of your responsibilities

Kmalissa08

Aaahhh I've been in this same boat. The LO's bio dad is an Olympic Cyclist. He couldn't pay child support but he could afford all his biking equipment and to take the time off of work for his races and to travel around the country. Awesome. He never told any of his coaches, friends, or teammates that he had a child. In fact he went to great lengths to hide it by deleting his fb. Well his team has a fb page. They posted a picture of him winning a race talking about how hes such a dedicated athlete. I left them a comment telling them it must be nice that hes so dedicated to the sport when he hasn't visited his child in 8 months! lol Gave me quite a bit of satisfaction to let that cat out of the bag! 

rachaelT28

Mine moved his gf and two of her kids into a house we are fighting over in court. Dumb, dumb, dumb. He has a love of going to the movies and has not bought one single thing for the baby, which based on my preterm history could be here any day.