Advice needed - The hubby wants another ..

gamingmomma

Hi there ladies! Bridget here. I had my twins (Isaac and Ivy) just over two weeks ago, after a hard pregnancy, probably my hardest. That brings my total of children to 9. Me and my husband were talking the other day, about our future, finances and so on. Out of the blue, he just said 'I want another'. Obviously he meant he wanted another child. I've tried talking to him, explaining that the last one was really hard, and I dont know if I could take another one. Especially because I have 'The Twin Gene'. Just the thought of another set of twins (I have 4 already) or possibly more stresses me out, and I dont know how to get through to him. I'm not getting any younger, but he just wont listen. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

JemmaWRX

If you don't want more, he needs to respect that, plain and simple.

bugandbibs

When it comes to having kids, the "no" always wins. :/gavel

Stacey099

It'll be a hard convo to have but you need to stick to your guns. If you explain it all to him he should be supportive. He can be sad about it but really he needs to support you and your health

Ducktale

bugandbibs said:

When it comes to having kids, the "no" always wins. :/gavel

Agree with this. Also, 4 SETS of twins or 4 twins? Doesn't matter, either is a lot.

mAnYaSha

... You guys really do not smell MUD?

yelyah4826

mAnYaSha said:

... You guys really do not smell MUD?

this...

MMason12

JemmaWRX said:

If you don't want more, he needs to respect that, plain and simple.

This!