Today has just been...

CoIvie

UGH!! One of those days!! Maybe I'm super hormonal today. Idk. Whatever. I've already been irritated today but I get on Facebook and what do I see?

My bd has upgraded his nice BMW to an even nicer BMW..

Why is this a problem? Beeeeeecause he has a daughter on the way and hasn't offered to do a damn thing..hasn't even acknowledged HER.. Just asked me for my number and hasn't used it

Good luck keeping up with car payments, rent in your loft, other daily expenses and the child support I plan on hitting you with

And apparently has a gf or some type of girl in his life...Idc about that because I don't want to be with him. But is that the reason you're choosing not to put it out there that you have a child on the way? Because of some females? Grow up if that's the reason. Please.


I just needed to vent..thanks

ktedmon

My baby's BD is a also a piece of work. When I found out I was pregnant, I was freaked out when I called him. He was happy, excited, all that. I was planning to visit him (he lives out of state) about a month later or so and when I talked to him, he said I couldn't. It took some prodding, but I found out that he had a gf, that he was not only seeing while pursuing me, but had also moved her in with him including her two kids. I yelled and screamed and went through the whole thing and when I asked him why he hadn't told me earlier, he said that he knew I dealt with depression and didn't want me to do anything stupid. Since then, his now ex gf is also pregnant. He doesn't take care of any of his kids (her's makes #7) and after some digging and research, I have found out that he has a lengthy criminal record. Not the ideal father figure I want for my child. I am going to do everything I can to either prevent him from seeing my son or make sure visitations are supervised. Good luck with everything. If you want to talk more, feel free to pm me. I'm always willing to help a momma out when she ended up with D'bag for a BD.

20thirteen

LOL, I think most BD's that get talked about on this board are mega d-bags. Both of your BD's sound extra special ed, though.  My BD makes money buy selling drugs and stolen bicycles, and not much either. I'm glad he's not here and I'm glad I found a guy who is willing to support my daughter and I. I guess that technically means I'm not a single mother, but I feel so attached to this board, I don't want to leave...