getting your groove on GTKY

MelissaMiso

I was thinking that I totally forgot how to flirt. Since the baby was born I thought I had lost my touch and anytime I try to flirt with my husband I fail miserably. Well, not really fail but he's been so stressed and tired he doesn't really respond. Bummer. I started to feel I lost my groove but I realized I have a couple of friends at work, male and female, that flirt with me. Thank god I still can get my swerve on. It feels good. Now, if only hubby would start to flirt again, too.

What's going on with your swerve/groove these days?
Whose never lost it? (lucky mommas!)
Whose came back later?
Whose thinking..."who the heck has the energy to flirt????"

And go...

bellelamb

I'm almost always too tired to flirt BUT dh and I dtd twice this week and once was amazing, flirting taking time for each other it was so nice.

But normally with three kids in tow flirting doesn't work well!

selockar

After DS1 we lost it for awhile. With DS2 we never really lost it. I was painful, so it wasn't fun for a long time, but I refused to give up. I can't say we flirt a lot. He flirts a little, but he is oblivious to anyone flirting with him. I get to the point now. I tell him something like you better shave before you come to bed. I hate kissing a scruffy face, so he knows what that means. We have more sex now that I started being more direct. Before he felt like he was always trying to get me in the mood, and I felt like he was in idiot for missing all the signals.