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Going nuts... Update #2
FutureMrsB.
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So here we go, again... Third time wasn't a charm and for me, I guess bad things come in three?
I did receive my levels and they wen up to 16... from 15. The NP I talked to said it was most likely a chemical pregnancy (same as my 1st MC) but that it could also be an ectopic pregnancy, there's just no way to tell just yet. Although I braced myself for this, I''m a bit devastated as I was really hoping this was it. It raises a bunch of questions (what is wrong with me/DH/us?). And now I have to look forward to miscarrying while on vacation in what is supposed to be the happiest place on earth (praying that it's chemical and don't need a trip to the ER, gosh I don't want that to happen). We had made the decision to take our DD there after my last miscarriage, a happy thing to do as a little family of three. The timing couldn't be worst.
Anyhoo. Thanks for all your support! Plan on digging deeper and seeking higher professional help upon our return.
I did receive my levels and they wen up to 16... from 15. The NP I talked to said it was most likely a chemical pregnancy (same as my 1st MC) but that it could also be an ectopic pregnancy, there's just no way to tell just yet. Although I braced myself for this, I''m a bit devastated as I was really hoping this was it. It raises a bunch of questions (what is wrong with me/DH/us?). And now I have to look forward to miscarrying while on vacation in what is supposed to be the happiest place on earth (praying that it's chemical and don't need a trip to the ER, gosh I don't want that to happen). We had made the decision to take our DD there after my last miscarriage, a happy thing to do as a little family of three. The timing couldn't be worst.
Anyhoo. Thanks for all your support! Plan on digging deeper and seeking higher professional help upon our return.
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Re: Going nuts... Update #2
1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
Oh, I am so very, very sorry to read this. I was really rooting for you. I know how devastating this feels; my heart breaks for you. Actually, the same thing happened to us with our last pregnancy. I was going through beta hell and the RE suspected it was ectopic, RIGHT before leaving for a two week vacation. We were heartbroken and so worried we'd need a trip to the ER too. Thankfully, it wasn't ectopic.
I will be hoping for a miracle for you....maybe you just have a slow starter and your betas will continue to rise. I am so sorry this is happening right before going to WDW.
BIG ((((HUGS)))) coming your way.
I can't tell you how sorry I am to read this. I understand how hard it is. I hope you will have a quick resolution so you can move forward. Hugs.
I had my fingers and toes crossed for you.
Maybe the time away with your family will make this a little easier to get through.
I know how hard a loss can be and my thoughts are with you.
Me:39, DH:40
DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04
TTC#3
NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13
Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks
CP 2/14
All welcome
Thinking of you!
So sorry to hear your news....I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and still hope that there is a little fighter in there going to surprise, us all.......
Hope that your trip will be good for you all and that you don't have to worry about a CP or etopic pregnancy, just a LO growing inside you......wishing you the best and sending Hugs!!!!
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
My Ovulation Chart
Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
3 cycles clomid with Ob,
1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.
May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN
May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't.
February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing.
SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!
Miscarriage 4/23/15