Ladies,
I will post this knowing I may get some negative responses but I need honest opinions....
I was asked by my host to put together a guest list for my shower. DH and I both have large families so there are lots of relatives on either side plus I have some friends to invite as well. After doing the guest list of family and a couple long time family friends my list has grown to 58 people. This does include children. My host nor either grandma or myself have the space to accomodate all of those people and renting a room is not in the budget. My thoughts were to weed out the guest list and only including family and friends we (DH & I) are closest to and eliminating those who are invited simply based on being related. Is this wrong? I just feel like I should share this with those we are close to rather than inviting everyone in the family. It's like saying "hey, I know we don't talk or see eachother often but since we're related come to my baby shower and bring a gift"
What do you think???
Re: Guest List Dilema
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This is perfectly fine. THis is, to me, what showers SHOULD be! They aren't a wedding. They aren't an "invite everyone you know" event.
A couple other thoughts - don't include kids. I personally don't see a shower as a kid friendly event as it is.
Also, you could make this shower just a "your family and friends" or "his family and friends" (depending on who the host is). Just because someone offers to throw a shower doesn't mean they have to do both sides. Someone from other side can step up and offer to throw a shower for that side.
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
Agreed
Precisely.
Baby GIRL due 12/26
I had a couple other people offer to host a shower after my MOH offered, and I turned them down. In hindsight, I wish I would have taken those people up on their offers and done a couple smaller showers instead. I didn't have a chance to socialize with everyone at my shower, and I felt really rushed when opening gifts because there was a time limit at the venue.
For a baby shower, a friend offered to do a friends-only shower (~12 ppl). My mom and aunt have offered to do another shower, and the guest list I'm giving them will be for my mom's half of the family and a few family friends, plus MIL and GMIL (~19). There hasn't been one planned for my dad/stepmom's family, but if no one offers, I'm just not going to have one with that side.
BFP #2 EDD 10/2015