Not trying to NOT get preggers?

BehbehShreevie

Anyone else in that boat?  I wouldn't say we're TTC, but we're certainly not preventing it at the time--seeing what happens these first few months!

 

I'm a newbie here   Hi, ya'll!

 

 

PunkyBooster

We are also not actively trying. I'd be thrilled if it just happened!
We will actively start trying after thanksgiving, I think.

LilacStar11

I guess that is where we are as well.  Ideally, I would like to wait until January-ish to start ttc actively but in the meantime I am not temping and just go by my CM as in indicator of fertility. 

Ducktale

[Overlooking the word "preggers" in the post title. Ick.]

I think if you don't chart and temp reguarly anyway, then there is a difference, because while you are not using any form of birth control, you're not making a point to have well timed sex.

But for those that chart and temp even when you're not TTC, then there probably is no difference between "not preventing" and TTC, since there's no unawareness there. In this case, I think there's either preventing or there's trying.

xomargiemariexo

SAME! *Hoping* it just happens!

CowgirlK39

We will be in this phase next week. I just got off BC and am going to be watching what my body does. We are not preventing but will not be charting or anything. If it happens, great, but we aren't counting on it due to my issues cycling.