I had my annual visit with my OB the other day, and she knows that we have decided to put IF treatments on hold to pursue IA. She asked how it was going and I updated her that we are on the wait list for China and considering additional options while we wait. She said that if we were considering domestic adoption, she often has pregnant patients forming adoption plans and hooks people up. So if we were interested in meeting with someone she felt was a good match, she would introduce us and we would take it from there and I guess find a lawyer?
This was a bit surprising to me, and I hadn't even thought of that as something that happens, so I told her I would discuss with DH and let her know if we are interested.
Has anyone done this? It seemed a little fishy, but I have only been working with agencies so far so I don't know much about other options.
Thanks in advance for any insight/opinions!
TTC for 5 years, with 2 failed IUIs. Excited to grow our family through international adoption!
Be JOYFUL in HOPE, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. ~Romans 12:12