We were given a profile for a BM and it seems to be a good fit for us but I am not sure if we should show our profile to her.
Currently I am in grad school (halfway through) and the company I am interning with is considering me for a position that would start at the end of Sept or early October. The position may include occasional travel to their location in VA (we live in OR). Nothing is set in stone but I think I have a really good shot at getting the job. The BM is due middle of September but is requesting that at least one AP (would be me) is home with the child while it is young. DH is interviewing for another job that would start about the same time I would start my new job so I am at a crossroads: Do we show our profile on the off chance that she picks us or pass on it because of all the uncertainty?
DH wants to move forward with it but I am so confused because a lot of the work would fall on me.
Pursing Domestic Infant Adoption through a local agency. In the meantime, our dog is our baby. Bumping from Portland, Oregon.