Trouble TTC

Need some advice

Hi there. So we're in the early stages of IF testing and DH had his SA last wk. The clinic called and asked him to take another sample, which scared me, but they said it could have not been fresh enough etc. So he gave another SA and today we got a call asking us to come in to discuss results. What can this mean? I'm a mess - we've thought all along that I'm the only issue and this has just hit me from left field. What could be the issue? The solution? I'm so anxious and have to wait a week for an appt. :(

Re: Need some advice

  • Okay, so you're in front of the firing squad, but no guns have gone off yet.  Stay calm, and know that whatever happens, you and DH will get through it.  They have TONS of ways to help men, more so than even women.  Relax, and feel some security in the fact that maybe you will be able to find out the issue.  Personally, I'd rather know the issue so it can be addressed, rather than unexplained IF.  Good luck!

    IVF #1 Oct 2013- cancelled 
    IVF #2 Mar 2014- success.... baby girl born 11/28/14
    FET #1 Mar 2016- baby boy due 12/16/16


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  • Thank you so much ladies. I just burst into tears reading these messages of support. You're right - I need to relax- we don't know anything yet. It's also best if a problem has been identified so we can take steps forward. It's gunna be a long week! Will let you know how things go
  • Thinking of you.  Hang in there!

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    Married August 2012 -- Me (40 yrs old) My husband (45 yrs. old) 

    RE referral from ObGYN in late Jan. 2013 -- Testing Confirms Unexplained IF 

    IUI #"s1 - 3 (Femara + IUI) April - June 2013 - all BFN

      Decided to do IVF... Began stimming on September 10th!  Egg Retrieval 9/20/13.  19 eggs: 6 to mature to freeze after 6 fertilized with ICSI

     3 morula stage embryos transferred on 9/25/13.....Beta #1 on 10/4/13/ = 7.5  Beta #2 on 10/6/13 =  negative

      IVF#2 - Lupron plan  (set to begin on 10/28/13)  (Planning on thawing and fertilizing our 6 eggs with ICSI as well as all of the mature eggs they retrieve with this fresh cycle.)

     Late October 2013 - ectopic pregnancy - methotrexate injection....benched 3 months

    CD1 - 12/5/13...Lupron set to start on 12/26/13; CD1 - 1/2/14....Baseline 1/3/14....begin follistim tonight and continue with lupron.  (Got my calendar today!  IVF#2 is a go!)

    ER = 1/14/14  (11 eggs....9 were mature. 9 fertilized.  Of the 6 mature eggs we thawed, only 4 fertilized.  At this time, we have 13 eggs fertilized and growing.  Waiting for news about a 3-day or 5-day transfer.)

    ET = 1/19/14  (5dt).....3 blastocysts transferred!   (All nine embryos didn't make it to freeze.  =(  )

    Beta #1 = 1/28/14   (2 weeks after ER)  BFP! 209 (9dp5dt)   EDD 10/7/14

    Beta #2 - 1/30/14  (11 dp5dt) 302

    Beta #3 - 2/3/14  (15 dp5dt)  1222 

    Ultrasound set for 2/17/14......TWINS!        Twin A - HR 124 bpm; Twin B - HR 126 bpm

    Final Ultrasound with RE 3/10/14 - Twin A - HR 176 bpm; Twin B - HR 177 bpm.

     PAIF/SAIF Welcome! 

     

     

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