The New Normal

Noethola

I thought this was a pretty good article. https://blog.yourtribute.com/grief/the-new-normal-dr-john-canine-discusses-child-infant-loss/

jbranden12

I agree, good article. Thanks for posting!

shandorfml2

This is right on! Thanks for sharing

bunnybun4

thanks for sharing...

I esp. like the part about how much you learn/grow after losing your baby.  I had a really hard time putting words to all of that at first because I felt like I was saying that she died so I could become a better person/ or that I could learn something about life.  After months of therapy I finally found the words that there was no purpose for her death but that her life did have purpose and meaning...SHE had purpose.  (I hope that makes sense...it makes sense in my head).  She has made me a different person for the better for sure...she has changed me forever in so many good ways. 

princezjk

@marylaurena - thank you for your words, they make a lot of sense to me.  Literally like a lightbulb.  I've been struggling with my daughter having purpose and saying it was her life that had purpose, not her death, really helps me.  Thanks for sharing!

princezjk

Interesting article, thanks for sharing!

BrittianyM

This was good. Thank you so much for sharing!

bunnybun4

@princejzk glad it made sense...it has brought me a ton of peace as well!