DS born Jan 2010
TTC#2 since Nov 2010 with breaks for DH cancer tx (remission!)
Tube with hydro removed Feb 2013
BFP 11/11/13 IUI#2 clomid+trigger+prometrium
Beta #1 14dpIUI=106; Beta #2 16dpIUI=287; Beta #3 20dpIUI=1158
5w6d 1 hb 109 and 2nd smaller sac; 7w0d 1 hb 125 and confirmed vanishing twin
Re: intro and question
TTC #1 4/2009 - DD 2/5/10
TTC #2 since October 2011
2IF issues
I'm glad to hear that your husband is in remission!
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Me - no issues DH - diagnosed with stage 2 testicular cancer in March 2013
Married 2009 TTC#2 since July 2013
July 2013 IUI#1 - Femara+Menopur+Ovidrel = BFN
August 2013 IUI#2 - Femara+Menopur+Ovidrel = BFN
December 2013 IVF - Gonal-F, Novarel trigger
ER: 12/19 9R 8M 6F with ICSI
ET: 12/24 transferred 1 grade 5AA blast; 2 frozen
DS born Jan 2010
TTC#2 since Nov 2010 with breaks for DH cancer tx (remission!)
Tube with hydro removed Feb 2013
BFP 11/11/13 IUI#2 clomid+trigger+prometrium
Beta #1 14dpIUI=106; Beta #2 16dpIUI=287; Beta #3 20dpIUI=1158
5w6d 1 hb 109 and 2nd smaller sac; 7w0d 1 hb 125 and confirmed vanishing twin
When I have my baby DD will be almost five. I met a bunch of people with a similar gap and they tell me it has been great. While we were ttc #2 I had the same worry of age gap. Someone said to me "siblings are for life, not just for a childhood playmate". This made me feel better. A sibling will hopefully teach DD a lot.
I wish you all the best in your journey.
I am an only child. No step-siblings, no half siblings - nada.
My mom had me and had her tubes tied immediately. She was truly one & done.
Growing up I LOVED being the only child. I was spoiled I had my bedroom and then a playroom, later as a teen I had the whole entire basement. I didn't stay in college dorms because the idea of sharing anything was too mind boggling.
If we went on vacations and my parents felt I needed company a cousin came along.
With that said- here I am one child of my own and I find myself wanting at least one more. But I don't necessarily think my son would care one way or the other. I'm inclined to think that siblings are for the parents not the children.
As for the age difference - I would prefer close in age but I'll take what I can get and I feel like there are pros and cons either way ( close in age vs not)
So I'm just throwing out a different viewpoint, nothing more, nothing less. I find that only childhood is the minority so I just want to reassure everyone that I can attest that I was not pining for siblings
I hope nobody misconstrues this. I feel like we all bring different experiences to the table and that is how we learn and grow from one another.
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF
KC1212--it is good to know you loved being an only. Since we haven't decided how far we will go with treatments that has crossed my mind as well.
KKDRAGONFLY--that is a great saying! I am going to have to remember that. Thanks!
DS born Jan 2010
TTC#2 since Nov 2010 with breaks for DH cancer tx (remission!)
Tube with hydro removed Feb 2013
BFP 11/11/13 IUI#2 clomid+trigger+prometrium
Beta #1 14dpIUI=106; Beta #2 16dpIUI=287; Beta #3 20dpIUI=1158
5w6d 1 hb 109 and 2nd smaller sac; 7w0d 1 hb 125 and confirmed vanishing twin
June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
BABY BOY VINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you!
Conception: Potato Love!
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF