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XH is a pathological liar!
This is more of a vent than anything...
So XH broke up w his gf for the millionth time bc she "isn't who he wants." He started buttering me up w lines about working things out and being friends to see where things go. He tried to kiss me and I rejected him bc he has done this in the past and days later he is back w the gf.
Once again I fell for his BS! He called me last night saying that he never said anything about working things out and I am making stuff up! This went on for a good 10 minutes....then I heard her in the background! I asked where he was and he said walmart! I realized then that he was saying all this to try to appease her and smooth things over. This is the second time he has called me and said I am a liar and making things up. I guess I still have that deep down feeling of wanting this "family" together...never again wiWill I have that feeling!
I'm more angry that he can just lie to both me and her and have no problem doing so! He actually believes his own lies which is scarey! It really hurts knowing someone I married could be such a terrible person and I'm even more fearful that he will lie to our DD or even worse that she could end up like him!
The icing on the cake was him telling me he is in love w the gf, which actually didn't bother me, but then he went on about how great she is w DD and that she is better w DD than he has ever seen anyone with a child and that she loves DD and DD loves her. I would hope they have a good relationship but it just wasn't necessary and I know he was trying to hurt me by saying that.
It just goes to show you never really know a person! I'm never falling for this again!
End of vent/rant...thanks for reading if you made it through haha
So XH broke up w his gf for the millionth time bc she "isn't who he wants." He started buttering me up w lines about working things out and being friends to see where things go. He tried to kiss me and I rejected him bc he has done this in the past and days later he is back w the gf.
Once again I fell for his BS! He called me last night saying that he never said anything about working things out and I am making stuff up! This went on for a good 10 minutes....then I heard her in the background! I asked where he was and he said walmart! I realized then that he was saying all this to try to appease her and smooth things over. This is the second time he has called me and said I am a liar and making things up. I guess I still have that deep down feeling of wanting this "family" together...never again wiWill I have that feeling!
I'm more angry that he can just lie to both me and her and have no problem doing so! He actually believes his own lies which is scarey! It really hurts knowing someone I married could be such a terrible person and I'm even more fearful that he will lie to our DD or even worse that she could end up like him!
The icing on the cake was him telling me he is in love w the gf, which actually didn't bother me, but then he went on about how great she is w DD and that she is better w DD than he has ever seen anyone with a child and that she loves DD and DD loves her. I would hope they have a good relationship but it just wasn't necessary and I know he was trying to hurt me by saying that.
It just goes to show you never really know a person! I'm never falling for this again!
End of vent/rant...thanks for reading if you made it through haha
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