More Sex Talk: BJs (Possibly NSFW)

Wine O Mite

Since it seems to be all about sex today, I have to say something.

I won't go into much detail, but IF A GUY FUCKING PUSHES MY HEAD DOWN AGAIN WHILE GIVING A BJ, I WILL BITE HIM VERY HARD.

bumpuser1691848

I have.

It was an accident, but that's what he gets for pushing my head.

Asshole.

Wine O Mite

Harry is exempt from this rule.  He can push my head wherever he wants.

SpaceGirlSpiff

Like...you try to come up for air and he pushes you back down, or is trying to control your movement? Either way is a douche move, Sorry ... but just curious. 

H has nicely HELD my head, but never pushed.  

Wine O Mite

No, like pushing my head down, ya know, to get it deeper in and telling me he wants me to gag.

ByeBabyBunting

As long as it's not forceful, I don't mind, but I would be pissed if it gagged me.

msdrdg

Oh Hell No.  I would bite the fucker off!

KaramelSutra

It's like they are trying to elicits gag. I wonder if it feels good

SpaceGirlSpiff

That would infuriate me.  How rude

Wine O Mite

I think it would be funny if I puked on his dick.  LOL

SpaceGirlSpiff

I mean, some people may be into that forceful stuff, and it's all in the moment ...but I would hope that's a mutually agreed upon style before the act, not just like... "SURPRISE, choke on my dick!"

Wine O Mite

I get it if it's your H and you have rules.

But don't just assume that I enjoy that.  You should be happy with what I'm doing, DON'T FUCKING PUSH IT.

Wine O Mite

WarKitten413 said:

I mean, some people may be into that forceful stuff, and it's all in the moment ...but I would hope that's a mutually agreed upon style before the act, not just like... "SURPRISE, choke on my dick!"

I just lol'd.

scoutkate

Spooko said:

Who WANTS someone to gag? Is he looking for some @scoutkate puke on his dick? That was you, right? Sorry if not.

lol, it was me.  I had just eaten a ton of birthday cake, okay??

Wine O Mite

scoutkate said:

Spooko said:

Who WANTS someone to gag? Is he looking for some @scoutkate puke on his dick? That was you, right? Sorry if not.

lol, it was me.  I had just eaten a ton of birthday cake, okay??

OMG.  ILY

Wine O Mite

And maybe this all goes back to the fact that I have a very very sensitive gag reflex.  Like eating a banana can be very overwhelming for me.

ThePolishHammer

I hate that!!

scoutkate

TBH, I'm actually more against pre-BJ head shoving.  Like if you're enjoying a nice make out sesh and then all of a sudden your face is in his lap. 

Wine O Mite

scoutkate said:

TBH, I'm actually more against pre-BJ head shoving.  Like if you're enjoying a nice make out sesh and then all of a sudden your face is in his lap. 

That is also pretty annoying.

insertclevername

Any sort of pushing of the head in the direction of the penis or while the penis is in my mouth would result in an automatic ending to the activity as well as the wrath of NYMama.

LaurelBee

WarKitten413 said:

I mean, some people may be into that forceful stuff, and it's all in the moment ...but I would hope that's a mutually agreed upon style before the act, not just like... "SURPRISE, choke on my dick!"

This is awesome. @LuckyDad I need to know, does it feel good when a girl gags?? Or just deep throat w/o a gag is the same?

SpaceGirlSpiff

I'm guessing it fluffs their ego or something a bit? Like, Oh yeah I'm so big, look what I can do!  ???

Maybe?

white318

Spooko said:

Right on WOM. If ever there was an argument against porn because it gives an unrealistic view of sex, this would be at the top of my list.

Agreed, and no one gags on flacid penis (as they all seem to be in the oral shots in porn).

KaramelSutra

Ffmc: I haven't given H a beej in over 5 years

KaramelSutra

You know what? It's because I don't reward his shit behavior. I'm so good at them. He doesn't deserve them.

BoopADoopBetty

I thought the gag reflex was a tightening around the dick, so it was like clenching around him, no?

KaramelSutra

Right. That's why I think they love you to gag

LaurelBee

BoopADoopBetty said:

I thought the gag reflex was a tightening around the dick, so it was like clenching around him, no?

Interesting... Very interesting.... Dude @luckydad we need you to confirm or deny, like right meow.

KaramelSutra

I gag easy and it produces vomit easier. Damn MS

LuckyDad

WarKitten413 said:

I mean, some people may be into that forceful stuff, and it's all in the moment ...but I would hope that's a mutually agreed upon style before the act, not just like... "SURPRISE, choke on my dick!"

This is awesome. @LuckyDad I need to know, does it feel good when a girl gags?? Or just deep throat w/o a gag is the same?

Pro deep throat; anti-gagging.

I personally feel like any control/rough sex activity needs to be pre-negotiated in some form.